After some bitter quarreling, you might start wondering about how you can make it up to your ex...
Well, you have to know that arguing is very common for relationships and sometimes - you just can't avoid it.
Also, there is no reason that you have to fall out of a relationship after an argument.
If you just experienced something similar with your lover and are wondering how you can make it up, here are some things that you can do.
To start off, what you can do is try and apologize.
Does that seem obvious? You might have been expecting me to say that as well.
However, as obvious as it might seem, apologies are not always as simple as you might think Fact is, there are only two types of ways to apologize: the right way and the wrong way.
It's not as simple as saying sorry.
You should also know that there's an art to an apology.
And without saying, you should know that it has to be sincere.
If it's an insincere apology, it'll only make the situation even worse.
The main problem when it comes to apologies is that they are almost always followed by self justification.
Here's an example...
"I'm really sorry for doing that but...
" Seeing the problem already?! Just about everyone apologies and then follow's it with a "but" to justify as if they have no reason to be wrong.
And that's something that you should avoid.
You shouldn't defend yourself when making an apology because it only makes it look insincere.
It's better if you apologize without defending yourself and hope that you'll be forgiven in the end for doing whatever it is that you did.
Simply forget about the "but".
It does not exist.
Always keep that in mind!