How Do You Get Your Girl Back After a Break Up? Help For Men Stuck in a Rut of Pain and Despair!
Most of your friends will tell you to beg and plead with her to give you one more chance.
They will tell you this is possibly the only way to get your girl back.
Nothing can be further from the truth.
In fact, using that tactic can, more often than not, lead to even more pain.
It will make you seem nothing but needy.
When our girlfriends leave us it makes us feel inadequate and insecure.
We look to ourselves for the cause of the breakup, when usually it is actually a fault in the relationship itself.
Do not worry.
It is seldom you.
She fell for you, and you are still you..
..
right? The best and probably only way to have any chance of future success in getting your girl back is to do the opposite of what other guys do.
Keep her guessing.
Do not contact her for a few weeks.
Make yourself unavailable due to other social events.
Make her question your whereabouts and actions in her own head.
Play with her, and tease her.
Be the mysterious magician who disappears for a few weeks, only to reappear at just the right moment.
Whilst you have vanished, have a good time with your life.
It shows you as a more emotionally mature man, and three guesses what? Women are attracted to emotionally mature men.
You better believe it.
It will be extremely hard to not contact your lost love, and even harder to think she might be looking for another boyfriend, however unless she left you for another guy, she probably needs just as much time as you do to get over the breakup.
It isn't easy for women either you know! If you show your emotional side then she will melt, am I correct? No.
She will view you as desperate and emotionally immature.
Girls are, frankly, weird.
(A big sorry to all of those girls reading this) Showing that your life will go on without her will send her into a spiral of doubt: why aren't I needed in his life? I thought he loved me? This hurts! I need him to be happy.
Then- voila her heart is yours.
You just then need to take the steps to ask her out.
There are other articles for that.
A breakup is one of the hardest things a man can go through, however a little bit of knowhow, and some damn good friends to keep your mind occupied, all is not lost.
They will tell you this is possibly the only way to get your girl back.
Nothing can be further from the truth.
In fact, using that tactic can, more often than not, lead to even more pain.
It will make you seem nothing but needy.
When our girlfriends leave us it makes us feel inadequate and insecure.
We look to ourselves for the cause of the breakup, when usually it is actually a fault in the relationship itself.
Do not worry.
It is seldom you.
She fell for you, and you are still you..
..
right? The best and probably only way to have any chance of future success in getting your girl back is to do the opposite of what other guys do.
Keep her guessing.
Do not contact her for a few weeks.
Make yourself unavailable due to other social events.
Make her question your whereabouts and actions in her own head.
Play with her, and tease her.
Be the mysterious magician who disappears for a few weeks, only to reappear at just the right moment.
Whilst you have vanished, have a good time with your life.
It shows you as a more emotionally mature man, and three guesses what? Women are attracted to emotionally mature men.
You better believe it.
It will be extremely hard to not contact your lost love, and even harder to think she might be looking for another boyfriend, however unless she left you for another guy, she probably needs just as much time as you do to get over the breakup.
It isn't easy for women either you know! If you show your emotional side then she will melt, am I correct? No.
She will view you as desperate and emotionally immature.
Girls are, frankly, weird.
(A big sorry to all of those girls reading this) Showing that your life will go on without her will send her into a spiral of doubt: why aren't I needed in his life? I thought he loved me? This hurts! I need him to be happy.
Then- voila her heart is yours.
You just then need to take the steps to ask her out.
There are other articles for that.
A breakup is one of the hardest things a man can go through, however a little bit of knowhow, and some damn good friends to keep your mind occupied, all is not lost.
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