If you have been dumped recently, you are likely asking yourself how you can get your ex back? Well, there is a common concept out there called "No Contact".
You heard it right - just cut all contact immediately.
Forget of your past relationship for now.
Actually, this may take a while, and what you want to do right now is to pick up the phone, call them, beg them, cry, plead, anything that can possibly make them take you back.
But it will not work.
This is just your emotion.
Learn to control it.
The Greeks once said that people contain three parts-logos, pathos, and ethos.
In layman's terms, it means that you have logic, emotions, and ethics.
Keep your emotions under control.
Keeping a distance is probably the best way.
Break contact with a sweet tone.
Tell him or her that you had a wonderful time together, and that things will just have to end for the time being.
Refrain from saying more, but don't be rude.
The next step definitely does not involve sitting by the phone with a stack of magazines or a cold beer.
This is about you.
You want the relationship back.
Think of yourself.
Go out and have some fun.
Call up some friends and have a night out.
Take a vacation.
Enjoy yourself.
Getting a life and enjoying it helps you heal and recover.
It also helps you get your ex back.
Your friends are there to help you.
Have some fun and if your ex ever calls, tell him or her that you are having a great time.
Don't try and make them jealous - that's not the point.
Just make sure they know that you're happy.
Your ex should be confused and reeling at this point.
He or she will be wondering why you aren't moping and will try and contact you right away.
If they do so, then it means he or she still has feelings for you.
At this point, you will get the chance of your life.
Grab it and manipulate it to get your ex back.
Make your ex regret, but don't make him or her guilty.
Go with the flow, and you might end up together once again.