Three Tips on How to Approach Women Anywhere and Attract Them
Every man needs these three tips to approach women anywhere and attract them.
It does not matter if it is in a bar, at break, at work, or at the grocery store, the way you approach a woman makes all the difference in attracting her attention.
All too many men make the mistake of believing that the approach begins when you start to talk to that sexy woman you spotted across the room.
However, the approach starts before you even cross the room or say hello.
You should begin the second you see that attractive woman and start preparing to approach her right then.
Here are 3 tips on how to approach women anywhere and attract them: 1) If you make eye contact before you reach her, and this sometimes happens especially if she sees you first, then look at her directly and smile.
Do not leer and do not look away or look like you were caught with your hand in the cookie jar, you are paying her a compliment.
A confident smile can do wonders even before you say a word.
When you walk up to her, make sure you walk with confidence.
There is little about a man who slouches or sidles or looks diffident attracts a woman.
In addition the old adage "It is not what you say, but how you say it" is only partially true when attracting a woman.
How you say it makes a difference, look directly at her and use a real smile.
What you say, yes, that makes a difference, there are few things less attractive than a pickup line this attractive woman's grandmother heard in her youth.
2) Women love confidence in men.
They also appreciate men who share similar interests and listen when they speak.
You need not hang on a woman's every word, but it is important that even a casual conversation be two sided.
There is no way she can learn about you if she is speaking all the time and similarly you won't attract her if you are only talking about yourself or are not listening.
It serves little purpose if you find this woman though attractive, is boring.
Let the conversation roll from that first hello "I noticed you like (avocados - gin and tonic - black felt tip pens), I do, too but don't you hate it when (they are mushy - the ice melts-they break in your suit pocket)" whatever your casual conversation starter was.
3) If you find there is even a small spark that conversation should move right into more personal topics about yours interests, your jobs, churches, hobbies or favorite movies.
It can be anything you find in common.
This is not the time to tell your life story.
Instead, it is the stages at which you are building on that beginning attraction.
Do not lie when you are talking about yourself and your hobbies, your job, or any topic that comes up.
It is hard work to keep the lie going and again, serves little purpose as it takes more energy than it is usually worth.
When you spot a woman you feel is attractive then make your approach that minute.
Straighten up, put a smile on your face and notice if she likes gin and tonics - black felt pens - or avocados.
Approach her then.
Do not wait for someone else to get there first (if she is attractive they usually will) or for her to lose interest and leave.
Go for it, and follow the simple tips on how to approach women anywhere and attract them; you will be glad that you did.
Copyright (c) 2010 Fredo Ong
It does not matter if it is in a bar, at break, at work, or at the grocery store, the way you approach a woman makes all the difference in attracting her attention.
All too many men make the mistake of believing that the approach begins when you start to talk to that sexy woman you spotted across the room.
However, the approach starts before you even cross the room or say hello.
You should begin the second you see that attractive woman and start preparing to approach her right then.
Here are 3 tips on how to approach women anywhere and attract them: 1) If you make eye contact before you reach her, and this sometimes happens especially if she sees you first, then look at her directly and smile.
Do not leer and do not look away or look like you were caught with your hand in the cookie jar, you are paying her a compliment.
A confident smile can do wonders even before you say a word.
When you walk up to her, make sure you walk with confidence.
There is little about a man who slouches or sidles or looks diffident attracts a woman.
In addition the old adage "It is not what you say, but how you say it" is only partially true when attracting a woman.
How you say it makes a difference, look directly at her and use a real smile.
What you say, yes, that makes a difference, there are few things less attractive than a pickup line this attractive woman's grandmother heard in her youth.
2) Women love confidence in men.
They also appreciate men who share similar interests and listen when they speak.
You need not hang on a woman's every word, but it is important that even a casual conversation be two sided.
There is no way she can learn about you if she is speaking all the time and similarly you won't attract her if you are only talking about yourself or are not listening.
It serves little purpose if you find this woman though attractive, is boring.
Let the conversation roll from that first hello "I noticed you like (avocados - gin and tonic - black felt tip pens), I do, too but don't you hate it when (they are mushy - the ice melts-they break in your suit pocket)" whatever your casual conversation starter was.
3) If you find there is even a small spark that conversation should move right into more personal topics about yours interests, your jobs, churches, hobbies or favorite movies.
It can be anything you find in common.
This is not the time to tell your life story.
Instead, it is the stages at which you are building on that beginning attraction.
Do not lie when you are talking about yourself and your hobbies, your job, or any topic that comes up.
It is hard work to keep the lie going and again, serves little purpose as it takes more energy than it is usually worth.
When you spot a woman you feel is attractive then make your approach that minute.
Straighten up, put a smile on your face and notice if she likes gin and tonics - black felt pens - or avocados.
Approach her then.
Do not wait for someone else to get there first (if she is attractive they usually will) or for her to lose interest and leave.
Go for it, and follow the simple tips on how to approach women anywhere and attract them; you will be glad that you did.
Copyright (c) 2010 Fredo Ong
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