I'm always amazed at all the crazy things that people do to try to win back their ex.
I think this is because when we are suffering from emotional pain, we tend to go off the deep end a little bit.
Thankfully, the skills that you need to get your ex back are not rocket science.
I'll show you some of them in this article, so that you can have some solid breakup help.
Use human psychology to your advantage.
The first thing you need to understand is the powerful human psychological principle of pushing and pulling.
When you push someone (crazy text messages anyone?)they will automatically draw away from you.
This is simply human nature.
But when you take actions to improve yourself, you start to pull your ex back towards you.
Let me explain how this works.
When you first breakup, your natural reaction is to get a little hysterical.
While this is completely normal, it doesn't help.
Hysterical behavior tends to be desperate and needy.
Desperate and needy behavior will always push your ex away.
What you need to do is find a way to pull them back toward you.
This is what to do.
First of all, do both your ex and yourself a favor.
Give yourself a break.
A couple of weeks to a month is a good amount of time.
During this time, work on yourself.
Get a haircut, go to the gym, and go out and have some fun.
Work on developing a positive attitude.
Your ex will take notice of this, and they will start to be drawn back towards you.
It's amazing how well this works.
Remember, when you are looking for breakup help, but no situations are impossible.
People get back together all the time.
You can too.