Well in a word surprises! But that is a pretty common thing to expect when you are dating Thai women as she is from a totally different culture. However dont let that hold you back. Indeed nothing you will know will perhaps ever prepare you for the kind of surprises that crop up when you are dealing with dating Thai women. And that is why you need to learn as much as you can!

At the very basic level Thai women are a lot like any other woman in the world. They have needs and expectations however what makes them irresistibly charming is the way they express those expectations which is what "culture" is all about. The Thai culture teaches Thai women to be humble and respectful, this does not mean they will forget about what they want and just do whatever they are told (sadly this is exactly what most westerners coming here believe), but rather they express their needs and wants in a way that is honorable and innocent.

This is the single most important thing that you must realize when you are dating Thai women. Please do not expect them to fall head over heals for you and go around fulfilling every single fantasy that you can come up with, but rather you should look towards a healthy relationship based on respect and understanding. Thai women are brought up to believe that there place is in a family and consequently that is what most of them want, deviations and exceptions always are there but this is the usual case. If you to want to start a family then you really could not be in a better place.