Experts say that almost ninety percent of failed relationships can be salvaged, so why is it that so many people fail in their attempts to get relationships back on track again? It all boils down to one thing, and one thing only - to get your ex back successfully, you need to do it the right way, or you will never get back together again.
So, just what is the right thing to do? Well, to start off with, don't hound your ex all the time after the break up.
Your ex is still smarting from the break up and your constant calls and text messages are going to aggravate the situation so much, that you can forget about ever succeeding to get your ex back.
This might seem over-the-top advice to you, but believe me, it's the only way.
Just think about it logically for a second.
You want to get your ex back, but your ex is absolutely furious with you at the moment, and won't even talk to you.
So what's the point of trying over and over to make contact with your ex? You're only making your ex more furious with you, so stop right now.
Now you don't have to sit around waiting until your ex gets over the hurt and anger he/she is feeling - go out and have some fun with your friends and family, no-one expects you to behave like a hermit just because your relationship has failed.
So do anything that will take your mind off your depressing situation right now, have some fun, and start getting yourself feeling great again.
I can almost guarantee you that your ex is probably doing the same thing right now.
He/she also doesn't want to sit around waiting for you, and is more than likely out and about with his/her friends and family as well.
You will start feeling better a whole lot faster if you are doing something fun with people that you like, and, when the time is right, and you and your ex are meant to be together, things will happen, and then you can have a chat and try to get your ex back.
Also, because you did things the right way, you'll be able to cope with whatever happens, either way.