Though some people may be encouraging you to not get back together with your ex, it can certainly be tempting.
After a break up, you feel alone and depressed.
At times, you only think about the good things that you had in your relationship.
Of course, if your ex currently wants nothing to do with you, then you've got a lot of work ahead of you.
These tips should help you get started in getting back together with your ex.
How to Get Your Ex Back 1.
Contact them.
You can't get back with your ex if you're sitting in your room moping about.
You have to make the first move.
Call him or her to feel things out.
You may also feel more comfortable sending an email or text message.
2.
Don't push them.
Once you contact them, the most important thing is not to push them to do something that they don't want to do.
You'll sound desperate and that may push your ex further away from you.
That's exactly what you don't want to happen.
3.
Remind them of the good parts of your relationship.
You broke up because of some problem in your relationship.
But there are plenty of reasons that you were a good couple to start out with.
Try to remind your ex about some of the fun times you had together or the good feelings you shared.
This type of nostalgia will make them start to miss you too.
4.
Just ask.
Sometimes, if you want something in life, you just have to go after it.
Tell your ex that you want to get back together and ask them what they think about it.
You never know what may happen.
They actually may be too scared to say that they want to get back together and appreciate your forwardness.