Lovers Should Keep Love Confined To Their Homes By Dressing Grandiosely For Each Other
Why the adornments and show of beauty to other women's men and not to your own man? The need for modesty is the same for both men and women; on the account of the differentiation of the sexes in nature, temperament, and social life; a greater amount of privacy is required for women than men, especially in the manner of dress and the uncovering of the bosom.
Why shouldn't a woman dress grandiosely at home just for the eyes of her husband - indirectly telling him that she is "in charge", and no one else? Conversely, why shouldn't a man also do the same for his wife at home? Sadly what we see in our cities today are some women exposing their beauties to attract attention, and some men dressing awkwardly to look "cute".
A man staying at home and not having any business to attend to in town might not bother to take a shower for days, but if he gets invited to say, a dinner party, he would dress up smartly.
A woman with a live-in boyfriend or husband might not also clean p for days.
However, when it's time to go out with her friends and, knowing that she might meet with other men; she might immediately make an appointment with a hair stylist, not only that; and even a beautician.
And in Africa, there are these Muslim women who would only look more beautiful only when they are attending weddings and child-naming ceremonies.
What of those unfortunate men they leave behind at home? Indeed, they are being left behind to wallow in the whirlpool of romance! Were these not the men you vowed to love with all your hearts? When these men realize they are now in deep "trouble" regarding their marriage lives, they might also start to make appointments with plastic surgeons - in order to make changes to their physical appearances - trying to add to, take away from, or make a general overhaul of their eyes, noses, ears, lips and teeth, with the sole intention of looking more "cute".
Some men might also try to see their dentists to replace their incisors (front teeth) which they lost years back - and which they had neglected for a long time! As they become more "cute", things then start to fall apart - until the center can no longer hold ( to borrow Chinua Achebe's words in Things Fall Apart), These men the begin to live in other women's world - not that of their wives.
Then their women begin to realize that their husbands now come back late from "work", then the women also make matters worst by doing " the same old things" that caused this to happen in the first place as a means of retaliation.
But can two wrongs make a right? Not knowing what else to do as matters get out of control, both sides begin to blame each other as their marriage caravan speed furiously toward a dead end! It takes two to make a divorce work - not one.
There is the need therefore, for lovers to look out for minor things that occur in the matrimonial home that may grow to become a big snowball and roll downhill to crush their marriage.
Why shouldn't a woman dress grandiosely at home just for the eyes of her husband - indirectly telling him that she is "in charge", and no one else? Conversely, why shouldn't a man also do the same for his wife at home? Sadly what we see in our cities today are some women exposing their beauties to attract attention, and some men dressing awkwardly to look "cute".
A man staying at home and not having any business to attend to in town might not bother to take a shower for days, but if he gets invited to say, a dinner party, he would dress up smartly.
A woman with a live-in boyfriend or husband might not also clean p for days.
However, when it's time to go out with her friends and, knowing that she might meet with other men; she might immediately make an appointment with a hair stylist, not only that; and even a beautician.
And in Africa, there are these Muslim women who would only look more beautiful only when they are attending weddings and child-naming ceremonies.
What of those unfortunate men they leave behind at home? Indeed, they are being left behind to wallow in the whirlpool of romance! Were these not the men you vowed to love with all your hearts? When these men realize they are now in deep "trouble" regarding their marriage lives, they might also start to make appointments with plastic surgeons - in order to make changes to their physical appearances - trying to add to, take away from, or make a general overhaul of their eyes, noses, ears, lips and teeth, with the sole intention of looking more "cute".
Some men might also try to see their dentists to replace their incisors (front teeth) which they lost years back - and which they had neglected for a long time! As they become more "cute", things then start to fall apart - until the center can no longer hold ( to borrow Chinua Achebe's words in Things Fall Apart), These men the begin to live in other women's world - not that of their wives.
Then their women begin to realize that their husbands now come back late from "work", then the women also make matters worst by doing " the same old things" that caused this to happen in the first place as a means of retaliation.
But can two wrongs make a right? Not knowing what else to do as matters get out of control, both sides begin to blame each other as their marriage caravan speed furiously toward a dead end! It takes two to make a divorce work - not one.
There is the need therefore, for lovers to look out for minor things that occur in the matrimonial home that may grow to become a big snowball and roll downhill to crush their marriage.
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