Do you want to attract a real good guy who's prepared to go the long haul? Are you tired of guys who are only interested in a few quick nights of fun? Do you really want that great relationship that will last forever? Love never follows a predictable path and that can sometimes be frustrating.
If you want to attract his attention, you have to start by getting him to look your way.
That's not likely to happen if you're dressed like one of the guys or cowering in the corner afraid anyone will notice you.
Get your look together.
Forget the fashion magazines and fashion models.
You're in the real world, so go to a real store, buy fashions that look great on you, then go out with all the confidence of a woman who knows she's at her best.
Looking great can include fashions that are a bit on the sexy side, but beware of ultra sexy outfits that will make you look cheaper than you realize.
You want to attract the guy, not advertise your willingness to go to bed with everyone.
Finally, leave your desperation and neediness at home.
You've probably heard it before; the girl who sought her independence and wanted nothing to do with a serious relationship meets the man of her dreams and falls in love, while the girl who is putting every effort into meeting a guy continues to go home alone every night.
Set out to have a night of fun, but don't allow too much weight to rest on this date.
If he's great and you have a good time, you can look forward to the next date.
Doing this without any great expectations allows you to just relax and have fun, and it gives him a good chance to get to know you without fearing the plans you might have in mind.
Guys do want a good and solid relationship, but they don't want to feel they're being snared into one.
Just keep having fun with him and he'll think he's the one who reeled you in.