Guys, the Female Orgasm is not rocket science! Brian knew something wasn't going to be good when Meagan tugged his arm and said, "We need to talk.
" They had just made whoopee and were lying in bed.
But Meagan was happy, or sexually fulfilled to say the least.
He thought she was going to start pushing him for marriage? And why not, they had been living together for about eighteen months.
Maybe she was pregnant, he thought.
He braced himself and prepared to hear what was bothering his most gorgeous girlfriend.
Unbeknownst to the headstrong Brian, Meagan had tried to have this talk with him on more than a number of occasions in a variety of ways, but he and his ego just didn't get.
When it came to sexual relations, Brian gathered most of his beliefs, insights and moves from Internet porn flicks and X-rated magazines.
He was convinced that he was an awesome lover, but the fact is, as much as Meagan loved him, Brian had never ignited the female orgasm in her.
This was her last ditch effort to get him to understand that she wanted to experience the Big "O" with her man.
During their conversation Brian was shocked that his lover had never had an orgasm with him.
He assumed that she did but in actuality, when it came to sex, he believed a woman could orgasm just as easy as a man could.
He never entertained the thought that to ignite the female orgasm, he had to take his time to get a woman aroused.
With Brian sex was more like what he saw in the porn flicks, wham, bam and thank you ma'am.
There was essentially no foreplay and it's extremely hard to get any woman aroused without foreplay.
This is the top reason why most women fail to experience the Big "O.
" After listening to Meagan express her desires, Brian's ego was somewhat shattered; but Meagan stepped in and helped him see that the issue was, he learned about sex from Class B actors and now he needed to learn how to make love.
They talked what seemed like hours on end about what turned her on and what she needed to reach the Big "O" In the end Brian realized that he didn't know as much about the female orgasm as he needed to know and that conversation with Meagan changed his life.
Not a bullhead, Brian decided to grab up some ebooks that helped him become a much better lover.
He became in tune to Meagan's needs and her body and what aroused her in a way that caused her great delight.
He learned some valuable lessons.
Number one, you can't learn how to make love from watching porn.
Number two, every woman craves the Big "O.
" Number three, when it comes it igniting the female orgasm, you must learn how to arouse a woman before you can bring her to the Big "O.
" Number four, if you don't learn number three, your lover may not tell you, but she will view you as mediocre or a terrible lover.