There is no great secret to getting a guy to like a girl.
But if there is no chemistry between the two people, then whatever effort is made by one person will not result in the necessary spark.
However, if a girl is really interested then it is worth making an effort to get a guy to like you.
Remember the saying from the game of poker about knowing when to hold and when to fold.
You need to take some pride in your looks.
After all first impressions are important.
Learning to emphasize your best features and downplay features that you are not happy about will be the first step.
If you are blessed with a beautiful smile, use it.
If you think that your hair could look better, get a hairdresser to help you.
There is nothing worse than feeling inadequate in any area.
Remember the saying that a way to a mans heart is through his stomach.
There is no doubt that guys like food.
So learn his likes and dislikes.
Either invest in cooking lessons to be able to cook him his favourite meal or even have take-away or dine out at a restaurant that serves the food he likes.
Whichever way you choose, the very fact that you thought of him will impress.
It is no secret that pandering to a persons ego makes them feel important and guys are especially susceptible to this.
Learn to laugh at his not too funny jokes and find reasons to praise him.
Of course this has to be done without being very obvious because if he suspects what you are up to, then your strategy will not work.
Also remember that you have to act in line with your qualifications and career status.
If you work in finance and he is a personal trainer, pretending he knows more about money than you do will not necessarily work.
Whatever you do, make sure that you do not beat him at sport.
If you play outdoor sports like Tennis, Badminton or Golf, make sure that he wins even if you can beat him with a hand tied behind your back.
Guys think that they are stronger than women and will not appreciate being shown up as weak.
When playing card games or board games, try to lose most of the time but not all of the time.
If you lost all the time he will begin to question your intelligence and may decide that you are too dumb for his liking.
Besides you need to show that you are capable enough to earn his respect.
Another common aspect of men is that they love to talk particularly if it is about themselves.
So you can start him talking with a few well chosen questions and listening to his every word will make him fell very important.
You will only need to make the occasional short response to let me know that he has your full attention.
When all is said and done unless an initial spark is there everything else will not be much use.
So once you have made every effort to get a guy to like you, if he is still not responding as you like, cut your losses and move on.