Break ups are the worst, and it can be easy to fall into the trap of watching sappy chick flicks that make you cry while eating a big tub of ice cream.
This is the worst thing that you can do, especially if you had yourself a really good man.
Before he gets snatched up, you need to get off that couch and start scheming to get your ex back fast.
Your first stop is your bathroom mirror.
Take a good look at yourself.
Are you happy with the way you look? Would your ex be happy with the way you look? Take five minutes to change what you can, then sit down and make a plan to create a happier, sexier, healthier you.
Men appreciate women who take care of themselves and dress up for them.
It is very easy to make the mistake of letting yourself go and being comfortable all the time once you have been in a relationship for a while.
This isn't often the reason for a breakup, but it doesn't help either.
And you certainly won't get him back that way.
You have to get some new makeup, buy some new sexy clothes, and have your hair and nails done.
Once you are all gussied up, it's time to make your move.
You know the schedule for your ex better than anyone, especially if you have been living together.
Go ahead and use that to your advantage by showing up casually in the places he is likely to be.
This way he can see how good you look, and he'll be reminded of why you were together in the first place.
If just showing up fails, show up with a guy to get him jealous.