It is incredible how many men have complained to me that women are not returning their calls.
They get all excited about meeting this girl they like at a party or a bar.
They finally get her number and go home over the moon.
In fact, some of them are already fantasizing about her being their girlfriend.
After all that anticipation and excitement, a few days pass (in some cases the very next day), they try calling her and get nothing! The girl does not pick up her phone when they call.
They try several more times and still no answer.
They then proceed to leave a voicemail or send a text message.
Still no answer! They keep on repeating this routine for a week (sometimes even two weeks) and get nowhere.
Eventually they give up in confusion and despair.
Well guys, there is no reason to be confused.
I am going to tell you why she didn't return your calls.
It is very simple.
Listed below are the most common reasons a woman is not calling you back: 1.
Giving you her number was no big deal: I know some of you may think it is a big deal she gave you her number.
It really isn't guys.
You have to appreciate that she probably gave her number to four or five other guys that week.
Don't feel so special.
Contrary to popular belief, a girl will not give you her number ONLY because she likes you.
There are two other common reasons people forget about.
One of them is to get rid of you.
She doesn't want to give you a fake number in case you try calling it in front of her and complain.
Or she wants to get an ego boast by rejecting you when you call.
Yes some girls get a kick out of that.
2.
She wasn't attracted to you in the first place: Now you know that getting her number isn't a big deal.
So she gave it to you for whatever reason.
The key point is, she wasn't attracted to you when she gave you her number.
If she wasn't attracted to you then don't expect to hear from her again (at least not as a potential lover).
You don't measure whether a girl is attracted to you by whether she gives you her number or not.
That is a very poor indicator to measure attraction.
3.
Something happened that made her change her mind after she gave you her number: This actually happens quite often.
A guy does really well in an interaction with a girl he likes.
He manages to get her number and even attract her (maybe even a bit).
However, after he gets her number something goes wrong in the interaction.
He either does something stupid or clings on to her.
I have seen this happen so many times.
If you get her number on a high note then LEAVE! Let anticipation build up.
The longer you stick around, the weaker that number is going to become because all that can happen is that attraction you built will start to diminish.
You have to learn to eject when you are ahead.
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