Many couples mutually agree to split up then subsequently one of the partners realizes that they are still in love with their ex.
This is quite a common occurrence and often a very tricky dilemma.
It could be that your ex feels the same way too.
During a fight, argument, or squabble over something your ex may have said that they are no longer in love with you, and while that could be true it could also be heat of the moment stuff where they have just let their emotions get the better of them.
If you are still sincerely in love your ex, there is always the possibility that your ex may still have feelings for you, but that alone does not indicate that it would be a great move to get back together again.
Remember you split up by mutual consent so there were definite underlying reasons for the break up.
Maybe the relationship was going nowhere or a partner had become abusive or was slipping into alcohol or drug problems, if this was the case then you are undoubtedly better off making a new life for yourself.
In time it could be that you will look back on the split as being a good thing and something that you needed to do However if the break-up was by mutual consent and you are now experiencing difficult emotions because you are sure that you are still in love then it is even more important that you reflect on the reasons why you agreed to split up.
If after a period of reflection you are sure you want to rekindle the relationship do not kid yourself that it will be an easy thing to achieve.
The grounds for the split up have not gone away.
Would getting back together change anything? In the future how will you prevent those old problems from recurring again, and causing the same outcome.
It could be that you restart your relationship with your ex partner only to find that after a short while nothing has really changed and you have made a terrible mistake.
Then what are you going to do?