Why a Man Disappears After Having a Good Time With You
You had a wonderful date with him.
The two of you were laughing, smiling, and he genuinely seemed to be having lots of fun.
And he probably even said "Let's do this again sometime.
" But after a few days of not hearing from him, something seems wrong and you can't help but wonder why a man disappears after having a good time with you? Men are very simple creatures.
They live in the moment and will do their best to make the best of any situation.
So if a man asks you out on a date, and appears to be having a lot of fun with you, that's just him doing his best to charm you - to make you laugh and smile.
He would much rather you be attracted to his easy-going manner than show his true colors immediately.
It's called putting his best foot forward.
However, when your date has ended, and he has time alone to think, he will quickly come to a conclusion about how he felt about you.
Does he think your connection is something worth exploring? Or does he think you are not worth his time and effort? Please understand that it's not an exact science to him - he won't spend hours weighing the pros and cons like a woman.
He'll just make a quick decision based on his feelings.
I'm not saying it's fair, but that's the way a man works.
Once he's decided that this relationship is a no-go for him, he won't spend his time giving you a call, text, IM or email - letting you know that he's changed his mind.
There are two reasons for this:
But I strongly urge you not to.
Because he will either agree to go on another date with you, and then disappear again.
Or, he will feel very put-off by your behavior and make a mental note to himself that you're really not the right woman for him.
If you really must contact him, keep your conversation short and just let him know you had a lot of fun and thank him for the date.
If he doesn't ask you out again, just end the conversation and forget about him.
Much better to end things now rather than get stuck in a relationship where you need to chase him all the time.
The two of you were laughing, smiling, and he genuinely seemed to be having lots of fun.
And he probably even said "Let's do this again sometime.
" But after a few days of not hearing from him, something seems wrong and you can't help but wonder why a man disappears after having a good time with you? Men are very simple creatures.
They live in the moment and will do their best to make the best of any situation.
So if a man asks you out on a date, and appears to be having a lot of fun with you, that's just him doing his best to charm you - to make you laugh and smile.
He would much rather you be attracted to his easy-going manner than show his true colors immediately.
It's called putting his best foot forward.
However, when your date has ended, and he has time alone to think, he will quickly come to a conclusion about how he felt about you.
Does he think your connection is something worth exploring? Or does he think you are not worth his time and effort? Please understand that it's not an exact science to him - he won't spend hours weighing the pros and cons like a woman.
He'll just make a quick decision based on his feelings.
I'm not saying it's fair, but that's the way a man works.
Once he's decided that this relationship is a no-go for him, he won't spend his time giving you a call, text, IM or email - letting you know that he's changed his mind.
There are two reasons for this:
- He thinks it's easier to just disappear than to have a discussion about it with you - after all, he doesn't intend to go any further with you.
- He hopes you'll get the hint - because he's afraid you'll feel hurt (or worse, get angry) when he rejects you.
But I strongly urge you not to.
Because he will either agree to go on another date with you, and then disappear again.
Or, he will feel very put-off by your behavior and make a mental note to himself that you're really not the right woman for him.
If you really must contact him, keep your conversation short and just let him know you had a lot of fun and thank him for the date.
If he doesn't ask you out again, just end the conversation and forget about him.
Much better to end things now rather than get stuck in a relationship where you need to chase him all the time.
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