Understanding the frontiers when going out to pick up women
On some nights, we go out, and it's just not working. We approach lots of girls but don't get anywhere; kicking and beating ourselves up for not being on top of our game. However, the issue may not necessarily be lying only with you. There may be external factors at work!
TIP NO. 1: Be mindful of local partying patterns during the week.
For example in East European countries like Slovakia, Czech Republic, Hungary and Poland, the girls generally tend to go out relatively earlier, dancing until around 2 in the morning, then making their way home, whereas the guys venture partying later, causing a mismatch in meeting times. In this case, maybe you have to think about going out and making your attack runs a little earlier.
Likewise in these countries, the nice girls are usually predisposed to come out on weekends; meaning you are wasting valuable party energy by going out during the week.
Contrastingly, in cities like Belgrade, for example, the city never sleeps, and you don't need to be as discerning.
TIP NO. 2: Be wary of posing places; instead seeking out more friendly clubs.
Very popular places to go out in Eastern Europe include the glamour clubs where hot babes are dressed–up to kill, but hang around their mafia boyfriends in a booth. These girls are just there to pose, without having any inkling to engage in any conversation. They definitely don't want to be seen giving out their number, engaging in any physical activity, or having their picture taken with you. You could try to get in with their guys, or invite them to move to another club, but it's going to be tough to make something quick happen with them. Instead, especially if you are only in the city for a short time, I recommend seeking out more friendly, party places where the girls are drinking, dancing and having fun; letting themselves loose.
TIP NO. 3: Be mindful of your own physical limits in terms of—for example—tiredness.
It's better to go out and be effective for only 1-2 nights during the week, rather than go out but be tired and inefficient for all 7 nights of the week. It is wise to take time to rest and build up energy so that you will be clear–headed, creative, alert, enduring and positive to fully take on the challenges of picking up women. … You will be much more efficient in your game.
Sometimes it may even be recommended to take a longer break—although not too long, so you don't completely forget you skills—from sharking to more energize yourself and clear your head. We may get so bogged down and lost in the world of seduction that we lose perspective, and end up getting nowhere. It's best in these moments of frustration and confusion, to simply take a short breather and come back later as a more refreshed shark to the game.
TIP NO. 4: Pay attention to your natural surroundings.
Women (and people generally) are a bit more frisky when there is a full moon. A psychic once told me that people's energy rises in the lead–up to a full moon, receding in the aftermath of a full moon. This may be complete rubbish, but my friend who worked as a policeman once told me that they used to make a lot more of the force available on a full moon night because people tended to act a little crazier.
TIP NO. 5: Pay attention to the physical (or even emotional) state of the girl.
For example, chicks may naturally be a bit more challenging when they are on their period, being especially self–conscious about sleeping with someone.
TIP NO. 1: Be mindful of local partying patterns during the week.
For example in East European countries like Slovakia, Czech Republic, Hungary and Poland, the girls generally tend to go out relatively earlier, dancing until around 2 in the morning, then making their way home, whereas the guys venture partying later, causing a mismatch in meeting times. In this case, maybe you have to think about going out and making your attack runs a little earlier.
Likewise in these countries, the nice girls are usually predisposed to come out on weekends; meaning you are wasting valuable party energy by going out during the week.
Contrastingly, in cities like Belgrade, for example, the city never sleeps, and you don't need to be as discerning.
TIP NO. 2: Be wary of posing places; instead seeking out more friendly clubs.
Very popular places to go out in Eastern Europe include the glamour clubs where hot babes are dressed–up to kill, but hang around their mafia boyfriends in a booth. These girls are just there to pose, without having any inkling to engage in any conversation. They definitely don't want to be seen giving out their number, engaging in any physical activity, or having their picture taken with you. You could try to get in with their guys, or invite them to move to another club, but it's going to be tough to make something quick happen with them. Instead, especially if you are only in the city for a short time, I recommend seeking out more friendly, party places where the girls are drinking, dancing and having fun; letting themselves loose.
TIP NO. 3: Be mindful of your own physical limits in terms of—for example—tiredness.
It's better to go out and be effective for only 1-2 nights during the week, rather than go out but be tired and inefficient for all 7 nights of the week. It is wise to take time to rest and build up energy so that you will be clear–headed, creative, alert, enduring and positive to fully take on the challenges of picking up women. … You will be much more efficient in your game.
Sometimes it may even be recommended to take a longer break—although not too long, so you don't completely forget you skills—from sharking to more energize yourself and clear your head. We may get so bogged down and lost in the world of seduction that we lose perspective, and end up getting nowhere. It's best in these moments of frustration and confusion, to simply take a short breather and come back later as a more refreshed shark to the game.
TIP NO. 4: Pay attention to your natural surroundings.
Women (and people generally) are a bit more frisky when there is a full moon. A psychic once told me that people's energy rises in the lead–up to a full moon, receding in the aftermath of a full moon. This may be complete rubbish, but my friend who worked as a policeman once told me that they used to make a lot more of the force available on a full moon night because people tended to act a little crazier.
TIP NO. 5: Pay attention to the physical (or even emotional) state of the girl.
For example, chicks may naturally be a bit more challenging when they are on their period, being especially self–conscious about sleeping with someone.
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