If you want to understand how to develop self confidence, you should watch others who clearly have plenty.
Think about it, if you want to know about photography, you will learn from a photographer, if you want to know about cooking, you will learn from a chef.
So, it stands to reason that if you want to learn how to develop self confidence, you will learn from someone who has self confidence.
Find something that you do well, and do it often.
Perfect it as much as you can.
It does not even matter what it is.
Everyone is confident when they excel in an area.
Some people sadly feel that they do not have an area of excellence, or even that they are not good at anything.
This is just not so, everyone has positive attributes.
The real question is, what have they done with them? There are so many characteristics of fine quality, and if you look, you will find them in yourself.
Some people are the best at keeping integrity.
If this is not a quality worthy of building self confidence, what is? Remember, as people we are not all raised the same way.
We do not all have the same life experience.
However, on some level we are all born with the same opportunity to build on who we are.
This is one thing that can never be taken from you.
You are you, and unless you allow it, no one can change what you will become except for you.
If you stop and think about that, it is pretty powerful, or rather, it makes you pretty powerful.
We all have the same basic human needs.
We all share the same basic human difficulties.
No one is better or worse than the other.
What more could one need than that realization to build their own self confidence?