Whom Do I Marry?
Amen! During my National Youth Service in Kaduna, Nigeria we held a conference organized by Nigeria Christian Corper Fellowship (NCCF).
The guest minister said 'as we are passing out, that there are three questions we need to ask ourselves.
' The question: ·Where we I worship? ·Where to relocate? ·And whom do I marry? By the grace of God, I will be dealing with the question, whom do I marry? Answering this question; whom do I marry is a very crucial and important one.
Everything a man does he laid a foundation one way or the other and the kind of foundation we laid or build on is very important.
The Bible says 'if the foundation is fault what can the righteous do...
' Marriage is one of such foundation, in fact marriage foundation dictate and show how successful a man can be in life, career, business and ministry.
So it is very important ands crucial to know the kind of marital foundation we are building or building on.
I tell you, if a man marital foundation is bad and fault, his career, ministry, life will fall automatically.
That takes on back to the question: whom do I marry.
Answering this question is the first phase of building a successful and fruitful marriage life.
Marriage should be enjoyed and not endure, what you enjoy from your marriage will tell if you can sincerely answer the question.
Christians should be careful in choosing whom to marry, Christian should not choose out of spiritually, spirituality is good but is not the end point.
The Bible says 'many daughters have done well...
' we have Christian brothers and Sister who are very committed to the things and work of God, but are they actually candidate for marriage? We are advised, admonished not to be equally yoked with unbeliever.
That a Brother sings so well, preacher behind alter, that does not make him a candidate for marriage.
I have experience such in my Christian life, because of my excellent delivery and eloquence, sister comes around me but I tell them often time that am a preacher and a Pastor does not make me the right person for you.
So do not marry: ·Out of spirituality ·Out of Christian virtues though they are necessary.
·Out of 'I believe he/she is me' ·Out what you person is saying or pastor though they are necessary.
·Out of prophecy though they are good.
·Out of 'oh! He/she goes to my church, he/she is vibrant.
' ...
but you excel them all.
Out of many, that one that excels them all is for you.
(Read/order my article/Tape 'Quality of a Lady) Every good and perfect gift comes from above the father of life.
That it's, not everybody that goes to church, profess to be a Christian is worthy of marriage, watch it.
Then, to whom do I pray? Who is that that excel them all? Who/where is that perfect gift for marriage?
The guest minister said 'as we are passing out, that there are three questions we need to ask ourselves.
' The question: ·Where we I worship? ·Where to relocate? ·And whom do I marry? By the grace of God, I will be dealing with the question, whom do I marry? Answering this question; whom do I marry is a very crucial and important one.
Everything a man does he laid a foundation one way or the other and the kind of foundation we laid or build on is very important.
The Bible says 'if the foundation is fault what can the righteous do...
' Marriage is one of such foundation, in fact marriage foundation dictate and show how successful a man can be in life, career, business and ministry.
So it is very important ands crucial to know the kind of marital foundation we are building or building on.
I tell you, if a man marital foundation is bad and fault, his career, ministry, life will fall automatically.
That takes on back to the question: whom do I marry.
Answering this question is the first phase of building a successful and fruitful marriage life.
Marriage should be enjoyed and not endure, what you enjoy from your marriage will tell if you can sincerely answer the question.
Christians should be careful in choosing whom to marry, Christian should not choose out of spiritually, spirituality is good but is not the end point.
The Bible says 'many daughters have done well...
' we have Christian brothers and Sister who are very committed to the things and work of God, but are they actually candidate for marriage? We are advised, admonished not to be equally yoked with unbeliever.
That a Brother sings so well, preacher behind alter, that does not make him a candidate for marriage.
I have experience such in my Christian life, because of my excellent delivery and eloquence, sister comes around me but I tell them often time that am a preacher and a Pastor does not make me the right person for you.
So do not marry: ·Out of spirituality ·Out of Christian virtues though they are necessary.
·Out of 'I believe he/she is me' ·Out what you person is saying or pastor though they are necessary.
·Out of prophecy though they are good.
·Out of 'oh! He/she goes to my church, he/she is vibrant.
' ...
but you excel them all.
Out of many, that one that excels them all is for you.
(Read/order my article/Tape 'Quality of a Lady) Every good and perfect gift comes from above the father of life.
That it's, not everybody that goes to church, profess to be a Christian is worthy of marriage, watch it.
Then, to whom do I pray? Who is that that excel them all? Who/where is that perfect gift for marriage?
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