Do Married Men Want To Cheat?
Why Do Men Cheat? Let me say this from the start; "a man does not get married to cheat on his woman".
This is the majority and of course, there are exceptions.
There are men who get an ego trip on being with one woman and yet having several sex partners.
Most of these type of men never get married, don't want to or they don't stay married long.
The average married man has the intent purpose of staying faithful to his wife.
If a man wants to cheat on his woman he will not get married! Again there are exceptions.
The men who do make a decision to get married and have never made a conscious decision to stay faithful to their wife, are those men who marry for prestige, image, pressure and children.
These men feel good about having their family and friends perceive them as a responsible monogamous and faithful man.
They get the gratification of being a good man to co-workers family and friends.
Yet they will run after the first woman that pays them some attention.
I am not saying that married men do not cheat and I dare not say most men who cheat are not married.
To make such statement is like saying that all dogs bite because they all have teeth.
Neither the first statement is true nor is the last.
Sometimes we assume things based on the majority of our experiences and not on facts.
We assume that there is one reason all men cheat.
A statement like that is very far-fetched and strongly false.
There is not one reason alone why all men cheat.
As there are different men in different situations and all men are not the same; likewise these different men cheat for a host of different reasons.
Women search for the answer of why men cheat by asking individual men and they get the one answer from that particular individual.
If you ask a group of unfaithful men why do or did they cheat on their mate, I guarantee each one will give you a totally different answer and most of them will try to justify their reason.
Women will argue with these men and refuse to believe their answer.
Many women believe that sex is the number one reason why men cheat.
I do believe that sex is a major reason, but I do not think it is the only reason or the most popular reason.
Married men cheat for different reasons than unmarried men who are living with a girlfriend.
The truth is if a man will not marry you he is making sure he keeps his door open for other options in case the relationship does not work.
And another rude awakening truth is, many men don't want marriage just so they can keep the door open for other opportunities to come along.
I think any man that decides to be with a woman and he refuses to close the doors and burn the bridge behind him, I don't believe he is totally committed.
And it is the same with a woman as well.
Reason 1: For sexual diversity/curiosity Reason 2: Physical Attraction Reason 3: Relational Neglect Reason 4: Revenge & Anger Reason 5: Seduction & manipulation
This is the majority and of course, there are exceptions.
There are men who get an ego trip on being with one woman and yet having several sex partners.
Most of these type of men never get married, don't want to or they don't stay married long.
The average married man has the intent purpose of staying faithful to his wife.
If a man wants to cheat on his woman he will not get married! Again there are exceptions.
The men who do make a decision to get married and have never made a conscious decision to stay faithful to their wife, are those men who marry for prestige, image, pressure and children.
These men feel good about having their family and friends perceive them as a responsible monogamous and faithful man.
They get the gratification of being a good man to co-workers family and friends.
Yet they will run after the first woman that pays them some attention.
I am not saying that married men do not cheat and I dare not say most men who cheat are not married.
To make such statement is like saying that all dogs bite because they all have teeth.
Neither the first statement is true nor is the last.
Sometimes we assume things based on the majority of our experiences and not on facts.
We assume that there is one reason all men cheat.
A statement like that is very far-fetched and strongly false.
There is not one reason alone why all men cheat.
As there are different men in different situations and all men are not the same; likewise these different men cheat for a host of different reasons.
Women search for the answer of why men cheat by asking individual men and they get the one answer from that particular individual.
If you ask a group of unfaithful men why do or did they cheat on their mate, I guarantee each one will give you a totally different answer and most of them will try to justify their reason.
Women will argue with these men and refuse to believe their answer.
Many women believe that sex is the number one reason why men cheat.
I do believe that sex is a major reason, but I do not think it is the only reason or the most popular reason.
Married men cheat for different reasons than unmarried men who are living with a girlfriend.
The truth is if a man will not marry you he is making sure he keeps his door open for other options in case the relationship does not work.
And another rude awakening truth is, many men don't want marriage just so they can keep the door open for other opportunities to come along.
I think any man that decides to be with a woman and he refuses to close the doors and burn the bridge behind him, I don't believe he is totally committed.
And it is the same with a woman as well.
Reason 1: For sexual diversity/curiosity Reason 2: Physical Attraction Reason 3: Relational Neglect Reason 4: Revenge & Anger Reason 5: Seduction & manipulation
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