My boyfriend & I of over a year have been broken up for about 4 months. We don't talk whatsoever. Even when we make eye contact we don't say hi.

(We see each other around a lot at school, church, same group of friends, etc.) There is no hatred or hostility between us; we just aren't friendly. Technically, he broke up w/ me & holds the power to bring us back together. I'm not sure exactly where he stands & how is doing/handling the break up, but I'm miserable. I feel so pathetic that it's been this long & i'm still not over it.

Well, the other day, after we hung out w/ a group of friends, he asked one of MY good friends randomly, 'does she think i don't want to talk to her? because i do.' My friend responds w/ 'it's not that, she is just putting up a wall, etc.' & she asks, 'why do you want to talk to her now..of all times.?' & he responds ' i still care about her so much and i want to know what's going on in her life..etc' my question is, why is he shooting for it now? or ever? in fact

because thats the way it always is when u first break up, first both of u try to avoid each other but even then u kno u still look at them whenever they pass by you. since he doesnt talk to u, u dont either. u want him to be the one to approach you.

this goes on until one of u finally decides to talk to the other. and during the whole time you didnt talk to each other you were both hurt and missing each other. since he doesnt want to ask you but he still cares he asks your friend to find out. hes shooting for that now because he just wants to know how you're doing and if you feel the same way about him too.

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