When You Can’T Get A Man Commit To You, Get A Bean Bag Chair Instead
Bean bag chairs have been known to provide the kind of comfort and company when one cannot get the same from a live human being. Though it's a thing and an inanimate object, it is proven to provide comfort and happiness in the same a human being can. Just what exactly is in a bean bag chair that will make you say these?
The soft and cuddly feel of a bean bag will make you forget that yearning for another human being. I have a friend who has been in a relationship with a great guy for five years. Their relationship was good and she was on an all-time emotional high thinking that she finally found a guy who she can spend forever with. The guy would shower her with sweet words and sweet notes assuring her that he was also thinking of spending forever with her. Everything was smooth and breezy until it reached that point in the relationship that she desperately wanted to settle down with him, while he has still other things in mind. She expressed her need for security to him but all he could manage to say was he wasn't ready to commit and that they were still very young. It broke her heart to pieces thinking how he could probably make assurances that he would marry her but when she asked him the question, he wasn't ready yet.
My friend went into extremes to mend her broken heart. She didn't know how to cope up with it as she felt like she hit rock bottom. She built her world on that guy and she was more than willing to make him her world. Only to find out that he wasn't willing to be the center of her universe. My friend cannot find the comfort and solace she was looking for. She attended yoga class to try meditation. She read all the self-help books she could find to make herself feel better. But none ever felt right. None gave her the comfort she was longing to have at that lowest point in her life.
Right now my friend had moved on by realizing that she couldn't cling on to people and that she cannot always take the row in relationships. She has to love herself first before she could give more to the relationship. What's funny with her experience is that she sought comfort in one, unlikely thing --- a bean bag chair. She told me how the chair would be her mute and blind witness to all those lonely heartbreaking nights she fiercely fought and endured.
When asked what's the greatest advice she got out of that experience, she only have this to say - when you can't get a man to commit to you, get a bean bag chair instead. No cuts, no tears.
The soft and cuddly feel of a bean bag will make you forget that yearning for another human being. I have a friend who has been in a relationship with a great guy for five years. Their relationship was good and she was on an all-time emotional high thinking that she finally found a guy who she can spend forever with. The guy would shower her with sweet words and sweet notes assuring her that he was also thinking of spending forever with her. Everything was smooth and breezy until it reached that point in the relationship that she desperately wanted to settle down with him, while he has still other things in mind. She expressed her need for security to him but all he could manage to say was he wasn't ready to commit and that they were still very young. It broke her heart to pieces thinking how he could probably make assurances that he would marry her but when she asked him the question, he wasn't ready yet.
My friend went into extremes to mend her broken heart. She didn't know how to cope up with it as she felt like she hit rock bottom. She built her world on that guy and she was more than willing to make him her world. Only to find out that he wasn't willing to be the center of her universe. My friend cannot find the comfort and solace she was looking for. She attended yoga class to try meditation. She read all the self-help books she could find to make herself feel better. But none ever felt right. None gave her the comfort she was longing to have at that lowest point in her life.
Right now my friend had moved on by realizing that she couldn't cling on to people and that she cannot always take the row in relationships. She has to love herself first before she could give more to the relationship. What's funny with her experience is that she sought comfort in one, unlikely thing --- a bean bag chair. She told me how the chair would be her mute and blind witness to all those lonely heartbreaking nights she fiercely fought and endured.
When asked what's the greatest advice she got out of that experience, she only have this to say - when you can't get a man to commit to you, get a bean bag chair instead. No cuts, no tears.
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