How to Have a Modern Day Affair With Your Wife
Times have changed and so have our relationships My mother was a stay at home domestic engineer.
She worked hard raising three busy children, tending to daily chores and preparing delicious home cooked meals for our family.
My father was the sole bread earner and at the end of his workday, he would usually settle into the role of a pampered husband.
He did help out at home, but like most fathers of his era, his domestic responsibilities were limited.
Fast forward to the 21st century and the roles for men and women have changed dramatically.
Most families are now comprised of two working parents sharing the household chores and the parenting responsibilities.
Although, the sharing of duties might not have reached 50/50 in some homes, men have come a long way in adopting more responsibilities.
I acknowledge that my additional "home work" has been a good education for me.
I have learned to appreciate my wife for all the things that she does.
I have also discovered that managing the household is a fulltime job that requires a full team effort.
Our busy lifestyles have put a strain on our relationships Most modern day couples struggle with too many things on their "to do list" and not enough time in the day to complete them all.
Juggling priorities has become an important survival strategy in our hectic society.
Unfortunately, sometimes we drop the ball and too often it is our relationship that suffers from the negative consequences.
A recent study identified the top three reasons for failed relationships: not spending enough quality time together, communication breakdowns, and infidelity.
Ironically the cause of affairs can be traced back to busy lifestyles and a lack of intimacy.
It is important to acknowledge that we all have our own needs and desires and perhaps some people are venturing outside of their relationship because they feel that their needs and desires are not being fulfilled at home.
This is evidenced by the growing number of websites that cater to a large membership of consenting adults that are seeking extramarital affairs.
Perhaps it is time to set a better example in our own homes and celebrate our relationships more often with lots of love, passion, and romance.
A modern day affair with your wife will result in a relationship with mutual benefits The only affair that is guaranteed to have mutual benefits is the one that you initiate with your wife.
Our wives deserve more attention, affection, and loving appreciation and rumour has it, that they are secretly waiting to have an affair at home.
Be prepared though because it takes a commitment, some creativity, and a willingness to keep the passion alive.
Here are some tips on how to have a modern day affair with your wife:
She worked hard raising three busy children, tending to daily chores and preparing delicious home cooked meals for our family.
My father was the sole bread earner and at the end of his workday, he would usually settle into the role of a pampered husband.
He did help out at home, but like most fathers of his era, his domestic responsibilities were limited.
Fast forward to the 21st century and the roles for men and women have changed dramatically.
Most families are now comprised of two working parents sharing the household chores and the parenting responsibilities.
Although, the sharing of duties might not have reached 50/50 in some homes, men have come a long way in adopting more responsibilities.
I acknowledge that my additional "home work" has been a good education for me.
I have learned to appreciate my wife for all the things that she does.
I have also discovered that managing the household is a fulltime job that requires a full team effort.
Our busy lifestyles have put a strain on our relationships Most modern day couples struggle with too many things on their "to do list" and not enough time in the day to complete them all.
Juggling priorities has become an important survival strategy in our hectic society.
Unfortunately, sometimes we drop the ball and too often it is our relationship that suffers from the negative consequences.
A recent study identified the top three reasons for failed relationships: not spending enough quality time together, communication breakdowns, and infidelity.
Ironically the cause of affairs can be traced back to busy lifestyles and a lack of intimacy.
It is important to acknowledge that we all have our own needs and desires and perhaps some people are venturing outside of their relationship because they feel that their needs and desires are not being fulfilled at home.
This is evidenced by the growing number of websites that cater to a large membership of consenting adults that are seeking extramarital affairs.
Perhaps it is time to set a better example in our own homes and celebrate our relationships more often with lots of love, passion, and romance.
A modern day affair with your wife will result in a relationship with mutual benefits The only affair that is guaranteed to have mutual benefits is the one that you initiate with your wife.
Our wives deserve more attention, affection, and loving appreciation and rumour has it, that they are secretly waiting to have an affair at home.
Be prepared though because it takes a commitment, some creativity, and a willingness to keep the passion alive.
Here are some tips on how to have a modern day affair with your wife:
- Prioritize your life and make time for your wife.
Set a goal of having at least one date per month. - Communicate with an open heart and an understanding ear.
The secret to great sex is great communication, so be prepared to talk, maybe even all night long. - Intimacy is built on a foundation of trust, so be willing to share your intimate secrets with your best friend - your wife, not your best friend - the dog.
- Share in the household chores and acknowledge that you are equal partners in your marriage.
A tired and over-worked wife will not be very responsive to your romantic gestures.
In fact the only thing that she will be desiring in the bedroom is some well-deserved rest.
Perhaps you could show off your sexy vacuuming skills. - Show your appreciation for your wife with random acts of kindness and gifts of gratitude and love.
Flowers are recommended, especially on date night.
Remember a happy wife will lead to a happy and harmonious life and isn't that what we truly desire?
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