Do You Want to Know How to Make Your Guy Commit?
You are like so many other women in a relationship that they want to progress but don't know how.
Fundamentally you cannot make someone do something that they don't want to but you can change their perception and make the prospect you have in mind more appealing.
For instance you can put your cards on the table and talk it through with him in a calm and objective manner.
You can tell him that you love him and will always be there for him no matter what.
That should jangle his emotions a little and make him feel guilty if he doesn't reciprocate.
But you don't wait for that.
You point out your own inescapable attributes and how good together you are.
You explain that you will be an asset to him and not a burden, and that you won't try to limit his freedom as some women do.
You ask him if he thinks he can do better? You ask if he thinks he would like to settle down one day, and, if so, why not sooner than later? Having laid out the situation for him it is fair to give him time to think things through.
You shouldn't pester him any more for a while but instead, keep yourself busy but available if he wants to talk further.
You have other things in your life, so you could use the time to see friends and family, or catch up on other pursuits.
Tell yourself that he needed this timely reminder that you are an important asset in his life and if he can't see that then it is fate.
In time, if you maintain this steadfast firm approach you should find he will come round to your way of thinking.
If not you have the satisfaction of knowing you did not allow yourself to be trapped into a dead- end relationship that would have caused you more sadness than joy.