Things You'll Need

Instructions

1

Ask the subject of the massage to empty her bladder.
2

Shower or bathe together.
3

Ask the woman to lie on her back with a pillow under her head and place a pillow under her hips. Ask her to put her feet halfway toward her buttocks, with her knees bent, and expose her yoni. Sit between her legs with your legs crossed.
4

Begin the breathing exercises that will continue throughout the massage.
5

Apply the lubricant or warm, scented oil to the outside of the yoni. Slowly and sensually massage her vaginal lips.
6

Rub her clitoris in a clockwise motion and then in a counterclockwise motion, adjusting the speed and pressure based on the woman's preferences.
7

Use your thumb and index finger to gently squeeze the clitoris.
8

Place your middle finger into the woman's yoni and explore various speeds and depths.
9

Focus your finger up toward the woman's G-spot, which is called the "sacred spot" in Tantra.
10

End the massage at the woman's request.