While getting the first date might kind of be a challenge, the real challenge for most guys is getting her out again. The second and third date are not going to happen unless you get the first date right. What most guys focus on when they are on the first date, is to kind of do their best "interview" that they can and hope that is enough to make her want to go out on a another date.

The problem is, when you take her out and treat it like an interview, you are pretty much making it almost impossible to get the second date with a woman.

Why?

Because an interview style date is downright BORING. Seriously, a woman doe snot want to be taken out on the cliche dinner and be pressed with questions and be hit with small talk about jobs, careers, and whatever boring topic that you can pull from out of thin air.

HERE'S HOW TO MAKE HER WANT TO SEE YOU AGAIN...

If you want to get her to want to see you again, then the first date with her has to be FUN. If she has a good time when she is out with you, and if she is smiling from ear to ear, then you can be sure that when you want to see her again, she will be more than glad to. Of course, you don't just want to stop at having fun with her, you want to be flirty and what they hey, you also want to make her feel some twinges of sexual attraction.

If you can to all of this, then getting a second date with a woman is practically guaranteed. Of course, there are many more things that you can do that will "raise the bar" and make you seem even more attractive to a woman, but that's for the second and the third date.