Most young adults have some preconceived notions about their performance or "best performance" in bed and spend a lot of time agonizing over how to be good in bed with the girl they love.
The reason why there are so many misconceptions is because of the way bedroom scenes are depicted in Hollywood movies.
In real life sex is not as clinical as it is shown in Hollywood potboilers or soft porn movies.
In real life sex can be a bit messy, bit smelly, bit imperfect and a lot more fun than what you see on the tube.
Sex is the highest form of human interaction.
If you want to know how to be good in bed read on...
Prepare well before the act- This aspect is almost always overlooked by both the sexes.
When you are with your partner in bed you are very intimate and hence it is advisable that you smell and look clean.
This does not mean you go to bed as you would go into an operation theater, but a quick clean shower and moisturizing will help.
Women should avoid layering themselves with strong perfumes.
For men a sports deodorant will go a long way.
Set the stage- Sex under bright lights is for porn stars not for ordinary mortals like you.
However, near total darkness is also not recommended.
Use the dimmer to have soft light in the bedroom, change the sheets and get rid of all the clutter in the room.
Music maybe a good thing to have, but soft instrumental is recommended and please avoid heavy metal or techno stuff they are sure to drive away your girl.
Choose your partner carefully- You will be good in bed with the person you really fancy.
If you sincerely like your partner you won't have to do too many things to be good in bed.
You need to have that burning desire to be in bed with the person to be good.
Be yourself when you are in bed with your partner don't try to be someone else.
These are some of the things you need to do to be good in bed, however, if you think you did not do too well, there's always a next time.