Meeting Women: 5 Simple Places and Techniques
It amazes how many of my male friends who always had attractive girlfriends when younger are now divorced, single, and have no idea how or where to meet women.
It really isn't that hard especially when you get older.
Forget about bars and clubs.
Here are 5 places and ways to meet women.
The first way is online.
Everyone thinks of online dating sites, and that certainly works, but other social media sites like Facebook need to be considered too.
Considering traditional online dating sites like Match and OKCupid, what is most important to know is that there is a learning curve and men need to send lots of messages.
I suggest 5-10 messages a night, knowing that very few women will actually see the messages and fewer still will reply.
I must mention that this is great for shy men.
The second way is at speed dating events.
There are lots of them and you will have several mini-dates, each about 5 minutes long.
This is a great way to meet lots of women quickly and also a great way to get back into dating if it has been a long time.
This is also great for shy men.
The third is through friends.
It is a fact that most people date people they meet through friends even today.
It's certainly not people they meet in bars or online, although online is growing in popularity certainly.
Let your friends know you are looking.
Last night I mentioned to a bartender I know well that my friend is single, and he instantly had two women he wanted to introduce to him.
Your friends do not know unless you mention it.
One place I love to meet women, my number 4, is at coffee shops.
Instead of working on my laptop at home I often head out to a local coffee shop.
I do not go there with the expressed purpose of meeting women, but it happens quite often.
I almost always strike up conversations with whoever I'm sitting near and also when I'm in line to order.
People are usually quite social and friendly in coffee shops as well.
Number 5 is supermarkets.
I've been told I (accidentally) do the "dumb guy" in a supermarket thing, and women love to help men in supermarkets.
In reality I'm a decent cook, and I sometimes end up cooking dinner for women I meet when grocery shopping.
It really isn't that hard especially when you get older.
Forget about bars and clubs.
Here are 5 places and ways to meet women.
The first way is online.
Everyone thinks of online dating sites, and that certainly works, but other social media sites like Facebook need to be considered too.
Considering traditional online dating sites like Match and OKCupid, what is most important to know is that there is a learning curve and men need to send lots of messages.
I suggest 5-10 messages a night, knowing that very few women will actually see the messages and fewer still will reply.
I must mention that this is great for shy men.
The second way is at speed dating events.
There are lots of them and you will have several mini-dates, each about 5 minutes long.
This is a great way to meet lots of women quickly and also a great way to get back into dating if it has been a long time.
This is also great for shy men.
The third is through friends.
It is a fact that most people date people they meet through friends even today.
It's certainly not people they meet in bars or online, although online is growing in popularity certainly.
Let your friends know you are looking.
Last night I mentioned to a bartender I know well that my friend is single, and he instantly had two women he wanted to introduce to him.
Your friends do not know unless you mention it.
One place I love to meet women, my number 4, is at coffee shops.
Instead of working on my laptop at home I often head out to a local coffee shop.
I do not go there with the expressed purpose of meeting women, but it happens quite often.
I almost always strike up conversations with whoever I'm sitting near and also when I'm in line to order.
People are usually quite social and friendly in coffee shops as well.
Number 5 is supermarkets.
I've been told I (accidentally) do the "dumb guy" in a supermarket thing, and women love to help men in supermarkets.
In reality I'm a decent cook, and I sometimes end up cooking dinner for women I meet when grocery shopping.
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