All relationships go through rough patches.
If you are one of the unfortunate ones who's relationship has broken down, don't despair.
As bad as things may seem, you can win back your ex boyfriend.
Throw away the tissues and start thinking positively.
Go through these 4 steps and your ex boyfriend should soon be your lover again.
First of all think about the break up.
Yes, this is painful, but is vital.
Think about the run up, what were the signs? Put your ego to one side and consider where you could have acted differently so that the break up could have been avoided.
Being aware of your flaws and being prepared to change them, will go a long way to helping you win back your ex boyfriend.
One of the most important things to remember in your quest to win back your ex boyfriend is to give him space.
He will be feeling as hurt and as angry as you are.
You must let these feelings calm down, and constantly bugging him with calls and texts will have the opposite effect.
He needs to make the same self appraisal as you have.
Sitting brooding in your room is not going to help you win back your ex boyfriend.
Get out and about; this will help clear your head, which in turn will enable you to put together a plan of action.
Be patient.
The reason for this break up didn't happen overnight and it can't be fixed in this timeframe either.
Be realistic, it may take weeks or even months to win back your ex boyfriend.
Don't ruin it by trying to rush it.
Remember, patience is a virtue.