There is no doubt that people need basic ideas about what makes a relationship works.
You might have read sensational books or watch fictional movies that prove to give you the best solution.
But they are all based on assumptions and relationship rules cannot be based on assumptions because it affects the life of everyone involved in it.
However, if you are looking for solutions that can help you to build lasting relationships then you are on the right course.
These are the important nuggets I found that really worked for me and others that I have given it to.
(1) Trust The first and most important thing is trust.
Without this core value you have nothing to build on and trust is important to everyone in our lives not to mention extremely necessary in a mature relationship.
To a certain degree we all come into a new relationship with a level of trust but over time and as the relationship deepens trust needs to be worked on.
Maybe you are wondering how this is possible.
It starts with being reliable with your word.
Simply follow through on what you say such as being on time and making a phone call when you said you would.
If you are conscious of how important trust is you will keep all the promises you ever made to your spouse.
Trust is one thing that is essential for a lasting relationship.
(2) Respect Another important factor is respecting the feelings of your partner, really listening and hearing when they share instead of degrading them or making them try to see your point of view.
This is one of the best ways to build lasting relationships when you are in the early stages of the relationship.
Give him/her a sense of belonging, make his/her opinions count and regard his/her presence anytime you are together.
This is so important to a relationship because it makes everyone involved relevant and gives room for comparing ideas as two heads are better than one.
(3) Communication Good communication in any relationship matters for easy understanding.
This will help you avoid unnecessary disagreements.
Especially, when it comes to money issue, you need to talk in clear terms.
If you do not learn how to communicate how you feel about money then you are certainly headed for trouble.
No matter how compatible you are there are bound to be things you disagree on.
Learn how to voice your opinion without engaging in a yelling match or experiencing too many standoffs where neither of you wants to give in.
If you learn how to agree to disagree you will be much happier in the long run.
Relationship is meant to be enjoyed and not endured; all you need is how to do it.
You already have the nuggets in your hands, make use of them and get results.