In order to get your ex to consider seeing you again, you are going to have to convince them that you are the only one who is truly going to make them happy.
In order to do this, you are going to have to create attraction.
While this may sound like a fairly simple thing to do, you should know that it must be done a certain way.
You cannot force your ex to feel something for you, you simply have to set the stage for it to happen on it's own.
This is going to require a certain amount of psychology and understanding about what creates true attraction.
First of all, forget what you see on television or in the movies.
If you are thinking about not taking no for an answer and showering your ex with flowers and gifts in an attempt to get them back, you are going to be sadly disappointed.
The only way that would work is if they weren't really serious about dumping you in the first place.
You have to think deeper than that.
You have to make them want you.
And one of the best ways to make them start wanting you again is to make them see what they are missing - while letting them know that you are not going to make it easy for them.
In other words, you cannot come across as being too easy.
A strange thing happens when a human being has too much of something: they automatically discount it.
They look at it as having less value because it is easily obtainable and in great supply.
Are you letting your ex know that you are easily obtainable? How hard would they have to work in order to get you back at the moment? My guess is, not too hard at all.
If you were to stop contacting them for a bit and show them that you are getting on with your own life, you would most certainly see a change of heart.
In fact, it is almost certain that you would be on their mind more often than not.
Do you think they were thinking about you when you were chasing them? Well, maybe they were, but not in a good way.