How to Have a Sexy Valentine"s Day
Whether you see Valentine's Day as romantic or invented, it's a great excuse to show your spouse how you feel about him or her and to spice up your sex life. Sweet gestures combined with steamy sex make for a sexy Valentine's Day that your spouse will never forget. Here, discover simple steps to having an affordable (practically free), sexy Valentine's Day from the comfort of your own bedroom -
Flowers - from your spouse's favorite bloom to traditional red roses (perfect for those who are in doubt about what to buy) - are a great way to set the stage for romance. I would hand deliver flowers to a woman and have them arranged in a vase on a nightstand for a man. Candles are also a lovely touch and will give the flowers extra oomph.More »
From going out of your way to do the laundry to saying, "I love you," you should always be sharing your feelings. Every so often, however, a bigger gesture will insure the message is loud and clear. Writing a love letter or turning to classic love poems could work. Or you could create a Say Anything moment by replacing John Cusack's boom box with your iPod and "serenading" your spouse outside his or her bedroom window with your favorite love song.More »
Just because you're married doesn't mean you have to stop dating each other, so why not flirt, too? You might need to refresh yourself on the fine art of flirting. But once you start, it will all come rushing back to you - from how to wink to what to wear to get noticed.More »
There is nothing more sensual than rubbing oil all over each other and massaging each other's bodies. A bonus is that massage also happens to be a great way to relax, especially if your spouse picks up on the proper techniques. You can rid of the knots in your back and your belly with a good massage. The best part of an at-home massage given by your spouse is that a happy ending is both guaranteed and legal.More »
A few minor tricks can help you improve your oral sex technique, and including oral sex in foreplay can be the difference between okay sex and mind-blowing sex. Oral sex on its own can be a great V-Day gift, but when combined with a complete night of lovemaking, it brings the holiday to a whole new level of pleasure.More »
Sure, you could whisper sweet nothings in your lover's ear. That might work. But why not say some dirty words instead? Sometimes, dirty talk is the perfect way to enhance your lovemaking and help you break out of a sexual rut. A few dirty words can turn on you and your partner, and they do not require any wacky sex toys or props. Dirty talk also costs nothing. Don't worry if you're intimidated by the dirty talk. You can practice before the big day. Try it. You'll like it.More »
1. Bring your spouse flowers.
Flowers - from your spouse's favorite bloom to traditional red roses (perfect for those who are in doubt about what to buy) - are a great way to set the stage for romance. I would hand deliver flowers to a woman and have them arranged in a vase on a nightstand for a man. Candles are also a lovely touch and will give the flowers extra oomph.More »
2. Express how you feel.
From going out of your way to do the laundry to saying, "I love you," you should always be sharing your feelings. Every so often, however, a bigger gesture will insure the message is loud and clear. Writing a love letter or turning to classic love poems could work. Or you could create a Say Anything moment by replacing John Cusack's boom box with your iPod and "serenading" your spouse outside his or her bedroom window with your favorite love song.More »
3. Flirt like a couple of teenagers.
Just because you're married doesn't mean you have to stop dating each other, so why not flirt, too? You might need to refresh yourself on the fine art of flirting. But once you start, it will all come rushing back to you - from how to wink to what to wear to get noticed.More »
4. Give each other massages.
There is nothing more sensual than rubbing oil all over each other and massaging each other's bodies. A bonus is that massage also happens to be a great way to relax, especially if your spouse picks up on the proper techniques. You can rid of the knots in your back and your belly with a good massage. The best part of an at-home massage given by your spouse is that a happy ending is both guaranteed and legal.More »
5. Work magic with oral sex.
A few minor tricks can help you improve your oral sex technique, and including oral sex in foreplay can be the difference between okay sex and mind-blowing sex. Oral sex on its own can be a great V-Day gift, but when combined with a complete night of lovemaking, it brings the holiday to a whole new level of pleasure.More »
6. Talk dirty.
Sure, you could whisper sweet nothings in your lover's ear. That might work. But why not say some dirty words instead? Sometimes, dirty talk is the perfect way to enhance your lovemaking and help you break out of a sexual rut. A few dirty words can turn on you and your partner, and they do not require any wacky sex toys or props. Dirty talk also costs nothing. Don't worry if you're intimidated by the dirty talk. You can practice before the big day. Try it. You'll like it.More »
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