Tips Attracting Women: Please Leave Your Evil Twin Creepy Mccreeperson, At Home
Even if you don't need tips attracting women, you should read this just in case this applies to you, even marginally.
First of all, why are some men so irritating? I know that is a little on the bitchy side, but I can only take so much complete oblivious-ness before I just can't take no more.
Newsflash: If you are not getting a glowing response, or worse, you seem to be getting homicidal vibe from a chick- please leave her the heck alone. Stop "hollering" and go run your game on the next piece that walks by. I just do not grasp why some dudes, even when they are clearly getting politely dismissed- choose to keep pursuing a woman.
Guys, if you buy a woman a few cocktail, and her eyes seem to be wandering around a bit- perhaps scanning the room for an escape route- then smoothly and gracefully excuse yourself. If she digs you- then she will find you again. Do not continue to try to buy her drinks in an attempt to get her drunk, or follow her around aggressively trying to chat her up. This is weird and the behavior of a borderline sociopath. And surely you are not going to text her 27 times the next day... between the four phone calls you placed.
If a woman does not respond to two text messages in a row (yes, just two!), then she is not interested in you. Same goes for un-returned calls and invitations to hang out. Once you cross that two-text blow-off line, and proceed to still try to get her attention... Congratulations, you have just achieved creeper status. We women, yeah... we don't like our men creepy. And obviously, we don't like them desperate.
So please, we know that you think you are awesome and that no sane woman wouldn't want you- but learn to take a hint. Most women are not going to be outwardly rude to you if they are not interested in you. They will probably not be rude to you even if they are not interested and you are shamelessly pursuing them to the point of annoyance. But you better believe behind your back, they are gossiping to their girlfriends about the weird guy they met Friday night- that seemed fairly normal at first.. until he followed he around the bar and has texted her 7 times since. Yes, that's catty- be we are women and we are generally passive aggressive. Such is life so deal with it.
Remember this Rule of thumb: if you text/call a chick twice and she does not answer or call you back- then deleter her number. She ain't interested, so just save yourself the temptation and delete it. The more times you call that she doesn't answer, she will be even less interested. And creeped out a little. You don't want to be the creepy guy. It's even worse that the smelly guy- and WAY worse than the nice guy. You can never get rid of the 'Creepy Guy' status, not just with that particular woman, but within her whole social circle, which leaves a whole bunch of possible hook up opportunities wasted.
So those are my tips for attracting women (or at least not turning them off to the point where they are fantasizing about running you over with a semi-truck). Please take it to heart and contribute to a less creepy society. Thank you.
First of all, why are some men so irritating? I know that is a little on the bitchy side, but I can only take so much complete oblivious-ness before I just can't take no more.
Newsflash: If you are not getting a glowing response, or worse, you seem to be getting homicidal vibe from a chick- please leave her the heck alone. Stop "hollering" and go run your game on the next piece that walks by. I just do not grasp why some dudes, even when they are clearly getting politely dismissed- choose to keep pursuing a woman.
Guys, if you buy a woman a few cocktail, and her eyes seem to be wandering around a bit- perhaps scanning the room for an escape route- then smoothly and gracefully excuse yourself. If she digs you- then she will find you again. Do not continue to try to buy her drinks in an attempt to get her drunk, or follow her around aggressively trying to chat her up. This is weird and the behavior of a borderline sociopath. And surely you are not going to text her 27 times the next day... between the four phone calls you placed.
If a woman does not respond to two text messages in a row (yes, just two!), then she is not interested in you. Same goes for un-returned calls and invitations to hang out. Once you cross that two-text blow-off line, and proceed to still try to get her attention... Congratulations, you have just achieved creeper status. We women, yeah... we don't like our men creepy. And obviously, we don't like them desperate.
So please, we know that you think you are awesome and that no sane woman wouldn't want you- but learn to take a hint. Most women are not going to be outwardly rude to you if they are not interested in you. They will probably not be rude to you even if they are not interested and you are shamelessly pursuing them to the point of annoyance. But you better believe behind your back, they are gossiping to their girlfriends about the weird guy they met Friday night- that seemed fairly normal at first.. until he followed he around the bar and has texted her 7 times since. Yes, that's catty- be we are women and we are generally passive aggressive. Such is life so deal with it.
Remember this Rule of thumb: if you text/call a chick twice and she does not answer or call you back- then deleter her number. She ain't interested, so just save yourself the temptation and delete it. The more times you call that she doesn't answer, she will be even less interested. And creeped out a little. You don't want to be the creepy guy. It's even worse that the smelly guy- and WAY worse than the nice guy. You can never get rid of the 'Creepy Guy' status, not just with that particular woman, but within her whole social circle, which leaves a whole bunch of possible hook up opportunities wasted.
So those are my tips for attracting women (or at least not turning them off to the point where they are fantasizing about running you over with a semi-truck). Please take it to heart and contribute to a less creepy society. Thank you.
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