Breakups are bound to happen in a relationship.
There are various reasons for a breakup: the relationship goes stale or the romance is gone or worst, one of the involved parties has evolved and wants out.
If you are the aggrieved (dumped) party, cry if you must but don't cry for long.
You have to take stock of the situation and plan your move if you want your "baby" back! Sit Back and Think - Take a deep breath and think why your boyfriend or girlfriend left you.
Was it your fault? Were you too possessive and controlling? Now is not the time to plead for reconciliation as your ex is still probably fuming.
Give Your Ex Space - Not following up on a possible reconciliation may seem to be a wrong move for you but believe when I was it is not.
Leaving your ex alone is probably the best thing that you can do to have a shot on getting him/ her back.
Give your ex the time to reassess the situation.
For all you know your ex is now considering getting back with you.
Provide Your Ex an Opportunity to Miss You - Stop pestering your ex with text messages and phone calls.
If your positions were reversed, you wouldn't like getting calls and text messages on the hour by the hour.
Let your ex have the opportunity to miss you.
If you have not communicated with him /her for some time, your ex would at one point, think of you and start wondering what you are doing.
Go Have Some Fun - It's not the end of the world.
You are too young to mope and hope that your ex calls you up soon.
Please! Life is too short.
Go out with your friends and have some fun.