The pain of a difficult break up can be absolutely heart breaking.
You might feel very low right now, and if you do, you need to try and remain confident, and take a close look at your situation.
Decide if the relationship is really worth fighting for, and put aside your ego and pride.
Look at the situation objectively and from both points of view.
Was there love in the relationship? Is that love worth saving? If the answer is yes, then you need to make a plan to get your ex boyfriend back.
Make sure that you do not engage in text message terrorism, or write too many Facebook posts during this time.
Don't say anything for right now.
If you make a public scene on Facebook about your break up and smother your ex boyfriend, you will be hurting your chances of getting him back.
Anxious thoughts and actions can damage your chances of getting your ex back.
You need a plan to help you make intelligent decisions with regard to your break up.
And that is a very hard thing to do...
Unfortunately, romantic movies and TV shows have filled your brain with unrealistic options.
Your favorite TV shows have provided a lot of misinformation regarding what it takes to get your ex boyfriend back.
Instead of showing you solid examples of what really works, your mind has been filled with bad information.
How many movies have you seen where cliches are abound? Pouring rain and one romantic kiss does not make a relationship complete.
What happens when the credits close? Romantic notions and ridiculous strategies will not help you get your man back.
You need to resist your temptation to use antiquated methods to get back your ex.
Techniques that reek of desperation can completely destroy your chances of fixing the relationship.
Instead of getting him back into your arms, you will end up pushing him away!