How's your kissing action? Are you a master of lips and tongue or are you the "shy peck" type? Do you often wonder whether or not you're a good kisser? Are you worried that your technique is getting boring and you'd like to spice up what you have to offer? Kissing is almost always the first intimate physical interaction we have with someone we are romantically interested in.
That's why there is so much pressure put on the perfect first kiss! The truth is that kissing really isn't all that complicated or tricky to master, and everyone has their own personal style.
There are very few things you can do to kiss "wrong" and believe me, your partner will let you know if you do it -- not by telling you, but by walking away.
First, let's start with the bad.
There are really only a few ways to mess up a kiss.
The first is not paying attention to your partner! Follow his lead.
This doesn't mean that you should imitate every single thing that he does when you're locking lips, but that you should gauge his level of intensity and try to mirror that as it progresses.
Don't go in tongue flying! Start with a gentle kiss and gradually settle in to something more passionate.
Pay attention to how much he opens his mouth, how much tongue he is using, and where his hands are.
Speaking of hands -- yours can be a make or break situation when you're kissing a guy.
If you have your hands awkwardly locked to your side while you're kissing, it can make your kiss -- you guessed it -- awkward.
However, if you have roving hand syndrome, you can make the situation equally as awkward.
Find a nice balance between the two.
Touch him, but don't grab.
A lot of women like to put one hand at the back of his neck to pull him in and one hand on his chest, to push him away.
It gives you a sense of control in the situation, and is also extremely intimate.
The most important part to learning to kiss well is learning your partner.
Everyone is different, and thus everyone will kiss differently and like different things when being kissed.
If you follow his lead, you can pretty much bet that he'll be into it.
And on top of everything else, enjoy yourself! Nobody wants to kiss a person who is thinking too hard about kissing them back.