There are a number of questions for couples in love or think they are in love need to ask themselves to help their relationship.
If you are in love or in a good relationship everything seems so magical at the beginning and you feel nothing will ever go wrong.
However, we all know things eventually change and we start seeing faults.
This is not a good sign but it happens.
I am going to share with you 3 questions we could ask ourselves that will help us make our relationships better.
First ask yourself what makes you happy or sad? You see, you need to understand yourself better before you can understand others? If you do not know what makes you happy, how can you explain to your loved one, why you are sad.
Secondly, you need to ask what makes you angry? This is all part of learning more about your emotional self.
This will help you to learn when is the best time to discuss emotionally disagreeable events or activities with your loved ones.
The wrong time is when tempers are flared.
One way to find out the right time to discuss annoying situations is to simply ask.
You will be surprised how far simple questions can help emotional healing.
The third question you have to ask your self is, "Can you forgive?" Most of the times we need a sense of sincerity and truthfulness with ourselves before we can forgive ourselves.
Yet, before we can forgive others we need to find ways to make peace with ourselves.
Giving ourselves peace makes it easier for us to cultivate love for one another.
Asking ourselves these 3 questions can help us begin to build better relations.
However, much more important than simply asking questions is actually trying to put your self in a position to relate to the other person's emotion.
One way to do this is to watch your loved one's body language and facial expression to get a sense of his or her true feelings.
This is because a better understanding of our true feelings will help even couples in love to make their relationships better.