Why do so many of us feel so uneasy when trying to talk to a guy? Why do we get so tight and nervous when attempting to start a conversation with someone new? Why does our mind go blank and we find it impossible to think of anything to say? Knowing how to talk to a guy doesn't come naturally for most women, but there is help.
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Tip number one is to pretend that you already know this guy and then you treat him as though he is a good friend.
It's fine to do this, even though he might be a little confused.
He is certainly not going to admit that he doesn't remember you, and he will do everything he can to pretend that he considers you to be an acquaintance also.
Not only does this give you an edge, but it helps you bypass all the awkward introductions and initial struggling for an opening statement.
Just go right up and ask how he's been all this time.
Tip number two is to find out what his interests are.
Pay attention until you can pick up on some topic he brings up and then ask him questions about it.
At this point, you can then just let him take over the conversation.
If you start off with the right idea, he'll be off and running and will love that he has found someone so interested in what he has to say.
The best tool you can use in learning how to talk to a guy is knowing how to get him going so that you really do not have to say that much.
You can definitely turn the situation in your favor by showing him that you are impressed with the information he is spouting out.
Let's face it, it is so much simpler to appear impressed with him than it is to make your own impression.
Boost his confidence in the beginning by giving him your undivided attention.
When you feel more comfortable in adding to the conversation later on, you can make yourself look fabulous and make that outstanding impression on him.
Now, you can claim success in learning how to talk to guys because you have learned the secrets of keeping him enthralled.