Bars and Restaurants

• Upscale restaurants and exclusive bars are great places to meet men. See what your town has to offer. Look into lounges that specialize in wine or Scotch selections. Bars and restaurants that require gentlemen to wear jackets are surefire places to find classy gents. Can't afford an expensive meal? Sit at the bar and order a glass of wine. Sip slowly and chat with the bartender. Bringing a girlfriend may be tricky; men are often too intimidated to approach two women sitting at a bar already engaged in conversation. You're more likely to be approached if you're alone. Don't be afraid to ask someone in the know when is the best time of day to meet single men there.
  
  

Clubs

• If your family has a country club membership, now is the time to put it to good use! Go swimming, play tennis, sign up for activities that interest you. Belong to a gym? Take the machine next to the man with a BlackBerry in his cup holder and strike up a conversation. Don't want to pay for a membership? Ask the front desk for a guest pass or search for one online and print it out. There are also clubs in big cities that are akin to country clubs in the suburbs. The University Club in New York City is a great place to meet single, wealthy men who love to be in the midst of social activity. Clubs like this one offer luxurious drinking and dining in addition to an array of social activities. If you don't belong, find a friend who does. Also, women's organizations like the Junior League tend to have co-ed parties that non-members can attend. These events are a great place to meet up-and-coming, society-minded men.
  
  

Charity Events

• Wealthy men love to attend events where they will be photographed. Grab a few friends and buy tickets to an upcoming charity event. This is a great excuse to get dressed up and enjoy an open bar. Be sure to check out events that don't require tickets as well. Upscale stores often have parties complete with cocktails and light bites, where a percentage of all profits benefit a specific purpose. This is not only a great way to meet wealthy men (who like to shop), it's also a nice way to get some gratis drinks and appetizers!