The breakup was messy with allegations flying thick and fast.
Both parties are to blame as no one was ready to back off.
You are convinced that you are the innocent party and your ex is to blame.
However, you still want your ex back because life is just not the same anymore and you miss all the good things you did together.
Well, sitting on your butt and arguing over what happened is certainly not going to help you.
Roll up your sleeves and get your ex back before he/she walks away permanently.
Identify your role in the mess It takes two hands to clap and certainly there were certain things in you that your ex did not approve of.
Make a serious effort to identify your flaws and rectify them as soon as you can.
If needed go and consult an expert or seek advise from friends.
You may also talk to the elders in your family and attempt to change yourself.
Apologize The best way remove the wind from your ex's sails is to render a sincere apology.
Accept your mistakes while subtly pointing to his/her mistakes too.
However, you will have to wait for sometime so that tempers have substantially cooled.
If you apologize without any strings attached your ex will be both surprised and ashamed at the same time.
Do not broach the topic of reunion just yet.
Get your life on track Now that the burden of guilt is off your chest concentrate on rebuilding your life.
Focus on your studies/work with increased vigor.
Let your ex know that you have decided to put the past behind and move on.
He/she will begin to secretly admire you once again.
Stay single Avoid a new relationship on the rebound.
Stay single but do socialize with your friends and family.
Your ex will notice this change in you and will also appreciate that you still have place for him/her in your heart.
It is only a matter of time when he/she will begin to make advances to you.