Sample Personal Development - Forget the Unmovable - Win True Friends Instead
You Cannot Win Them all Since birds of a feather tend to flock together, expecting everybody to be our friend is unrealistic, but we should of course try to be amiable with all people all the same.
We live in an imperfect world, hence the reality is there will always be those of whom we simply cannot hit it off with, hence we do not try to be too eager to win each person over to our friendship.
But do try to be kind towards all as this is being decent.
Focusing on the things which can be changed and ignoring the things which cannot be altered, come what may, is the course of positive wisdom.
Such a focus will help us to live positive productive lives instead of wasting our energy on complaining about the unmovable elements of life.
This will help us to be upbeat because we are not down beaten by tackling things which can never be changed anyway.
Sample Personal Development - Laugh and The World Will? Lets face it nobody likes pessimism and negativity, and when we give in to these things, we should not be so surprised that folk just keep out of our way.
Each one has his own burden to carry in life and folk do not want any more dead weight added to their burden by being in our depressing company.
Hence there is a real need to focus on the movable and changeable things of life.
Wanna win people over to your friendship? Then be happy! Ever heard of the laughing policeman? If you have a sad countenance by nature go study some of the silent movies! Go to an image site and observe some beautiful photographic pics.
Just being ourselves, within acceptable boundaries, is important to attract friends, and those who will not permit our personality to shine, are not the type of friends we want to be hanging around with.
Sample Personal Development - Let It shine and Do Not whine Your internal beauty within can not shine without, if a wet blanket is constantly thrown over you and your positive balloon is popped by such fire crackers, called friends.
You know you can either become a stiff unbending person like a Roman sword or be flexible, like a modern swords man foil.
Being adaptable and flexible are constructs of nature which help life to exist and move on to greater things.
Being able to yield to folk while maintaining who you are, is important to winning people over and keeping self respect.
We live in an imperfect world, hence the reality is there will always be those of whom we simply cannot hit it off with, hence we do not try to be too eager to win each person over to our friendship.
But do try to be kind towards all as this is being decent.
Focusing on the things which can be changed and ignoring the things which cannot be altered, come what may, is the course of positive wisdom.
Such a focus will help us to live positive productive lives instead of wasting our energy on complaining about the unmovable elements of life.
This will help us to be upbeat because we are not down beaten by tackling things which can never be changed anyway.
Sample Personal Development - Laugh and The World Will? Lets face it nobody likes pessimism and negativity, and when we give in to these things, we should not be so surprised that folk just keep out of our way.
Each one has his own burden to carry in life and folk do not want any more dead weight added to their burden by being in our depressing company.
Hence there is a real need to focus on the movable and changeable things of life.
Wanna win people over to your friendship? Then be happy! Ever heard of the laughing policeman? If you have a sad countenance by nature go study some of the silent movies! Go to an image site and observe some beautiful photographic pics.
Just being ourselves, within acceptable boundaries, is important to attract friends, and those who will not permit our personality to shine, are not the type of friends we want to be hanging around with.
Sample Personal Development - Let It shine and Do Not whine Your internal beauty within can not shine without, if a wet blanket is constantly thrown over you and your positive balloon is popped by such fire crackers, called friends.
You know you can either become a stiff unbending person like a Roman sword or be flexible, like a modern swords man foil.
Being adaptable and flexible are constructs of nature which help life to exist and move on to greater things.
Being able to yield to folk while maintaining who you are, is important to winning people over and keeping self respect.
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