Three dumb mistakes to avoid when approaching women
A lot of men today are finding it difficult to keep their relationships going beyond the first date. In a lot of cases, this is due to a lack of self-esteem, but other times, men make errors in judgment that can lead to the reduction in their chances of developing a long term relationship.
It would be hugely beneficial if you could avoid these mistakes that might keep you from a successful long term relationship with the woman of your dreams. One of the issues you have to address from the get-go is the fear of failure and rejection. This fear is something which is common to a lot of men, so don't feel alone here, but that is no excuse for allowing it to gain the upper hand. Tackle it and deal with it early!
So, you've resolved to deal with fear. Here are three mistakes you need to be aware of and avoid when you are<a rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:ga('send', 'pageview', '/outgoing/article_exit_link/4709079');" href=http://www.learntoapproach.com.au/approaching_women.html>approaching women</a>.
Mistake #1: Trying too hard. If you use canned routines or pick up lines when approaching a beautiful woman, chances are she's heard them before – and possibly by a more able Casanova. If you do go down this route, she is likely to see you as someone who is trying too hard to impress her and will know that you are not genuine. It's easy for women to spot a man who is trying his best to impress her – so don't.
Mistake #2: Using Logic. We all know – well at least we men do - that women tend to be ruled more by their emotion than by logic, and this becomes very evident in relationships. Have you ever tried explaining to your girlfriend the ‘logic' of your position? It is a losing battle. Similarly, you cannot explain to her why you are both a perfect match, instead, show her. Make her realize how special you are by doing things that will win her heart. This is good advice for all types of relationships but especially with women. If you can get through to her heart through your actions rather than your words and logic, then you greatly increase the chances of her falling into your arms.
So you now know that you should not try too hard and that you should show not explain why you both have something special, here is another mistake you should avoid if you want to ‘attract' Ms. Right.
Mistake #3: Not connecting emotionally. This is similar to mistake number two. You need to understand that women are primarily emotional creatures and that if you want to establish a connection with her, you need to make her feel something for you.
Approaching a woman is about being genuine and not trying to hard, it's about winning your with your actions and not by showing her how logical and right you are and lastly it is about making an emotional connection with what could potentially be your life long partner.
Anything's Possible
Scott
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It would be hugely beneficial if you could avoid these mistakes that might keep you from a successful long term relationship with the woman of your dreams. One of the issues you have to address from the get-go is the fear of failure and rejection. This fear is something which is common to a lot of men, so don't feel alone here, but that is no excuse for allowing it to gain the upper hand. Tackle it and deal with it early!
So, you've resolved to deal with fear. Here are three mistakes you need to be aware of and avoid when you are<a rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:ga('send', 'pageview', '/outgoing/article_exit_link/4709079');" href=http://www.learntoapproach.com.au/approaching_women.html>approaching women</a>.
Mistake #1: Trying too hard. If you use canned routines or pick up lines when approaching a beautiful woman, chances are she's heard them before – and possibly by a more able Casanova. If you do go down this route, she is likely to see you as someone who is trying too hard to impress her and will know that you are not genuine. It's easy for women to spot a man who is trying his best to impress her – so don't.
Mistake #2: Using Logic. We all know – well at least we men do - that women tend to be ruled more by their emotion than by logic, and this becomes very evident in relationships. Have you ever tried explaining to your girlfriend the ‘logic' of your position? It is a losing battle. Similarly, you cannot explain to her why you are both a perfect match, instead, show her. Make her realize how special you are by doing things that will win her heart. This is good advice for all types of relationships but especially with women. If you can get through to her heart through your actions rather than your words and logic, then you greatly increase the chances of her falling into your arms.
So you now know that you should not try too hard and that you should show not explain why you both have something special, here is another mistake you should avoid if you want to ‘attract' Ms. Right.
Mistake #3: Not connecting emotionally. This is similar to mistake number two. You need to understand that women are primarily emotional creatures and that if you want to establish a connection with her, you need to make her feel something for you.
Approaching a woman is about being genuine and not trying to hard, it's about winning your with your actions and not by showing her how logical and right you are and lastly it is about making an emotional connection with what could potentially be your life long partner.
Anything's Possible
Scott
<a rel="nofollow" onclick="javascript:ga('send', 'pageview', '/outgoing/article_exit_link/4709079');" href=http://www.learntoapproach.com.au>Learn To Approach</a>
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