When you get a hold of the digits of a hot girl, you might want to jump up and down and do a victory dance.
Hold your horses, buddy, because you haven't spoken to her on the phone actually set up the date.
A lot of guys get a number, but then sabotage themselves by lacking charm on the phone.
Having a good "phone game" can be the deciding factor.
If you want to secure the date so you can really move the relationship ahead, there are certain things you must do so she doesn't regret giving you her number.
There are three main factors to think about when talking on the phone: she has to have fun, she has to understand you, and you must make her feel an emotional connection.
1 - "Use Humor.
" Making a woman laugh is a great way to lower the barriers she puts up quickly.
Whatever connection you made with her when you met in person, you need to replicate it.
She should be laughing right after your first greeting.
You can make fun of yourself to make her laugh, but don't go too far.
Keep the alpha male mentality even while using this tactic.
2 - "Tell a Story.
" Use stories to keep her entertained - preferably ones that help her learn more about you.
It's vital that she is relates to what you're saying.
Monitor her reactions and play to what works for her.
Right at the climax of your story, stop suddenly, and tell her the rest will come during your date.
She may be a little annoyed, but it will psych her up for your upcoming date.
3 - "Use Fractionation.
" Use hypnotic talking techniques to build attraction.
There's a method called fractionation that can have her totally drawn to you quickly.
After your talk, she'll feel emotionally addicted to you and won't want to hang up.
It's absolutely the best way to ensure that she'll be dying to go on a date with you.