Do you want to get your girlfriend back, but you fear you've lost her for good? Did you do something wrong and you now regret it and you want your girlfriend back? Does she hate you, never want to see you again and even refuses to speak to you, but you still love her and want to find a way to win your girlfriend back? Sometimes couples just fall apart or fall out of love and there's little or nothing you can do.
But if you stumbled, did something wrong, did something stupid that really hurt her, here's what you can do to win your girlfriend back.
Leave the Macho Behind Coming on like gangbusters and trying to shove your way back into her life isn't really going to work, especially if she is still angry or hurt by what you've done.
This is the time to show a bit of humility and bow down to her a bit.
Apologize like you've never apologized before, but make sure it's heartfelt and sincere.
If you just want to throw meaningless words around and expect her to simply forgive you, you're in for a surprise.
Respectful Persistence The line between being the persistent guy who really loves his girl and the creep who can't let go can be very thin and easy to cross.
Don't be arrogant or obnoxious in your approach of her.
If you're too full of yourself and you simply can't accept the fact that it's time to move on, you'll never win with her.
Watch for telltale signs of hesitation when you're with her.
If, somewhere deep inside her, she still loves you, there will be little signs.
It's kind of a take one step forward, two steps back kind of deal.
In her heart she wants to be with you and she'll allow her defenses to go down just enough to let you come close, but you've hurt her so badly she's reluctant to let you in too close.
Show, Don't Tell Apologizing verbally can only go so far.
As wonderful as it may be for her to hear you say you're sorry, in the end they are simply words that are all too easy to just state.
Your every action should prove to her how sorry you are.
For instance, you cheated on her with a girl who just so happens to be a friend of yours.
Your ex-girlfriend isn't stupid.
She knows very well that if you continue to be friends with this girl, you'll probably cheat again.
So who is more important? The girlfriend you want to get back, or the friend you had an affair with? Break ties, clean and permanent, and show your girlfriend that she's the one who really matters to you.
She'll see that you really mean it and will be more apt to take you back and trust you again.
Actions speak a thousand times more loudly than words and, if you want to get your girlfriend back, you better be ready for some serious business.