He"ll Love You Forever - Try This and See
Does love seem fleeting and you want to really get a guy who will love you forever? Do the women around you just seem to have the knack for making men fall for them and you'd like to get a hand of that knack? Is love a game that you've just never learned how to play efficiently? If love is a game, it certainly isn't a frivolous or easy one.
But there are a few rules you should learn to play by.
Rule #1 - No Bullying Some women bull-headedly enter a relationship determined to make something out of it.
Before you know it, they're pressuring the guy to be something he's not, give something he doesn't have or feel something he doesn't yet feel.
Love takes time.
Don't forget that.
Rule #2 - No Competition When faced with a man they want to impress, some women go overboard in trying to validate themselves.
Some even go to the point of putting the guy down to elevate their own sense of self.
Starting a relationship by making the man you're interested in feel like less of a man isn't a very smart strategy.
Let him know you are impressed by what he does.
Tell him you think it's great what he's accomplished.
He'll feel great about himself and will know that you're responsible.
Rule #3 - Don't Over Self-Promote Feeling the need to prove themselves worthy, many women will go on and on about how great they are.
I'm wild.
I'm really funny.
I'm the class clown.
All my friends say I'm a dare-devil.
Don't tell the guy how great you are, show him.
Make him laugh and be amusing.
Do exciting and fun things with him and let him discover for himself how wild and outrageous you are.
Often when women over promote themselves, they set up such a high expectation that the reality usually falls flat.
Rule #4 - Don't Neglect or Deny the Man he Is If you've fallen for this guy, it's because he has something that attracts you, interests you and that you enjoy, right? Then don't go and ignore the man he really is and nag him into being someone else.
Don't try to change him and turn him into the romance novel hero you really want.
Love the man as he is and appreciate all the things you fell in love with to begin with.
But there are a few rules you should learn to play by.
Rule #1 - No Bullying Some women bull-headedly enter a relationship determined to make something out of it.
Before you know it, they're pressuring the guy to be something he's not, give something he doesn't have or feel something he doesn't yet feel.
Love takes time.
Don't forget that.
Rule #2 - No Competition When faced with a man they want to impress, some women go overboard in trying to validate themselves.
Some even go to the point of putting the guy down to elevate their own sense of self.
Starting a relationship by making the man you're interested in feel like less of a man isn't a very smart strategy.
Let him know you are impressed by what he does.
Tell him you think it's great what he's accomplished.
He'll feel great about himself and will know that you're responsible.
Rule #3 - Don't Over Self-Promote Feeling the need to prove themselves worthy, many women will go on and on about how great they are.
I'm wild.
I'm really funny.
I'm the class clown.
All my friends say I'm a dare-devil.
Don't tell the guy how great you are, show him.
Make him laugh and be amusing.
Do exciting and fun things with him and let him discover for himself how wild and outrageous you are.
Often when women over promote themselves, they set up such a high expectation that the reality usually falls flat.
Rule #4 - Don't Neglect or Deny the Man he Is If you've fallen for this guy, it's because he has something that attracts you, interests you and that you enjoy, right? Then don't go and ignore the man he really is and nag him into being someone else.
Don't try to change him and turn him into the romance novel hero you really want.
Love the man as he is and appreciate all the things you fell in love with to begin with.
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