Stopping a divorce is not something that can always happen, but there is always a chance of turning things around before it is in those final stages.
Here are a few crucial bits of advice to keep in mind when trying to stop a divorce.
1) Let go of the past.
The past cannot be changed, and you both need to recognize that.
The sooner you can concentrate on the present, and making things work, the sooner you can move forward.
Regret and not letting things go can destroy marriages, and you need to ask yourself if you can let it go.
2) Compromise.
Chances are you both would like to see things change.
If you are willing to change, your spouse should be willing to make similar sacrifices.
It is easier to make a sacrifice if you know that your partner is going through the same thing for you.
3) Be Realistic.
Arguments and emotions can carry things forward to the point where they are not very realistic.
Do not set demands that you know someone cannot meet, because then you are just going to be disappointed.
4) Be Supportive.
Perhaps in the past you have not been as supportive as you should have.
You need to make a strong stand, with both feet and stand behind each other if you truly expect to move forward together as a couple.
5) Take things one day at a time, and one piece at a time.
It is hard to tackle a problem when you look at it as a huge overwhelming thing, but if you break it down into pieces it becomes a lot easier to deal with.
I hope you are able to work together towards stopping your divorce.