Dating a Younger Woman - How to Keep Up and Lead Herd
Be yourself Yes, just be yourself.
So, you are dating someone younger, good for you.
That doesn't mean you have to buy leather pants or skinny jeans.
You might just end up looking odd.
It doesn't mean, either, that you have to pick up some current lingo to add to your vocabulary, or all those hand gestures.
She is with you for who you are, or so we hope.
So, be yourself.
Talk yourself up Yes, there is the idea that a man who is with a younger girl is "lucky" to have someone so young.
But do you know how many women want an older man? They like the maturity, the experience, the money, the status...
the comfort, the stability.
So, you are also part of a highly coveted species! Don't, of course, go around with an inflated ego as that would wreck any relationship, not just this one.
Just lose the chip on your shoulder and feel worthy.
Act your age You know how old you are.
You don't suddenly have to lose two decades to please her.
Of course, you can take this as a good chance to widen your horizons and do something new, and if rock climbing tickles your fancy, then, please do it.
But you don't have to constantly go and hang with her juvenile friends in noisy places: what use is anyone to a relationship if they are not happy? Make sure your needs are met It is a common feature with relationships such as these where the man feels like he has been blessed and thus, goes out of his way to meet the younger woman's needs, thus forgetting himself in the bargain.
This will create a total imbalance in the relationship and especially, in your life.
What are your needs? Make sure they are met.
It is only when you fill yourself up that you are any use to anyone anyways.
Be happy and enjoy yourself.
You have the best of both worlds and can acquire a fresh new perspective on life.
We hope she has the maturity to stimulate you conversationally...
and otherwise.
Good luck!