No More Being the Shy Girl With Guys

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Is it easy to talk to everyone except that one cute and really hot guy you like so much?  Does a mere glance from him send you all a flutter and weak-kneed and you can't get past it?  Do you know you'll just say something silly and inane if you even dare try to say anything to him? That killer smile, those warm eyes and that sexy demeanor can be enough to send a lot of very articulate and intelligent women down the path to dumdum ville.
  Suddenly we can't think of anything to say to the poor guy and end up with a very uncomfortable and awkward situation.
But there's a way around that.
First understand why you're suddenly so tongue tied.
  If you're like most women, you're probably putting way too much pressure on yourself.
  You feel as though everything is riding on every little word that you say and that can be overwhelming.
Do your best to feel confident, which includes knowing that you look and feel your best, then try to think of him as just another guy.
  Stay cool and relax.
  Impossible, you say? Well then, try this.
  Instead of trying to carry a conversation with him, think of a few pertinent questions you can ask him.
  The sooner you can put the ball in his court the more relaxed you'll feel.
The moment he starts talking, you'll feel that weight lifted from your shoulders.
  The key is to finding the questions that will interest him and keep him going.
That means avoiding yes or no questions.
  Try focusing on something you already know about him.
  So you heard that he's off camping every weekend.
  Ask where he goes and what he enjoys about camping.
  If you know he plays in a music band, ask what kind of music he enjoys and if his band is playing anywhere.
This is also a great way to show a guy that he's interesting.
  He'll enjoy telling you about himself.
  Before you know it you'll have forgotten all about your shyness around cute guys.
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