Have you tried absolutely everything to get your ex back, but nothing has worked? Well, my friend, then there is something that you haven't tried: self control! You see, when we lose something we want, we freak out and become so afraid that we won't get it back that we desperately run around to get it back.
But, you don't have to be like a chicken with your head cut off anymore, here are the 3 most brutal mistakes that you must avoid at all costs if you want to pull your ex back...
Acting needy - Showing your needy side to your ex is a huge mistake.
It gives your ex all the power to control you, because he/she could simply just ignore you, when you need to talk; or insult you when you try to express how you feel.
Never let your ex know that you want him/her back anymore, so that they feel like you don't care and will go crazy to get your affection again.
Trying to contact your ex like a maniac - well, I am sure you have called your ex excessively, and it has annoyed the hell out of him/her.
Give your ex some space, so that he/she doesn't just take you for granted.
If you are always the first to call, you will always look desperate, so cut off all possible contact, and control yourself.
Sitting around and waiting for your ex to come back - This is one of the worst mistakes you can make, because you are giving someone so much importance, when they are not returning that to you.
Instead of waiting around and being depressed, get out and date other people.
At least this way your ex will become jealous of you and will go crazy to get you back, and its a lot better than having your ex hate you and think you are pathetic.