You may feel like it's the end of the world when your boyfriend calls one day and says 'We need to talk', leading on to the inevitable - Perhaps we need a break; It's me, I just feel like I'm not good enough for you; all the nonsense that leads on to a breakup.
What have you ever done to deserve that? Instead of wallowing in self pity, here are 5 quick tips to help you get him begging to come back into your life! 1) Most importantly, DO NOT go back to him begging for a second chance, telling him of all the wonderful moments you had together etc.
this will only serve to add to his frustration and make him think even lesser of you.
Doing this will push him further away from you and he will try to avoid you completely.
2) Change your outlook.
Perhaps during the course of your relationship you have always done things 'the way he liked' or convinced yourself that dressing yourself in a particular way is attractive to him.
However over the years he may have found it bland or uninteresting, but just never bothered to tell you, instead satisfying himself by gazing at other girls.
Dressing up differently, putting on a different scent, or acting more like how you would otherwise act yourself could bring up a new spark of interest in his eyes, making him wonder how come he has never seen this side of you before! 3) Refrain from calling him in the initial period (2 weeks).
Use this time to evaluate your relationship.
Is it worth pursuing? Is he really the one? Is it just a little misunderstanding that has caused the split in the first place? If it is, then it is best not to leave it for too long, because most guys will be tempted to enter a rebound relationship before the month is up, sure it may mean nothing in the long term, but it serves to help them to forget YOU, which obviously you do not want to happen.
4) Now the secret really begins.
Text or email him with a short message THANKING him for breaking up with you.
Yes you read that right.
THANK him, saying that perhaps it is for the best, because something WONDERFUL has happened in your life during the past few weeks.
Keep him wondering at what it is.
He will be so curious that he will DEFINITELY call you back.
5) When he does call you back, you are NOT to ask him back.
Instead, let him simmer in his thoughts.
What you should do is to altogether avoid telling him what it was that happened to you, and end the conversation as soon as you can.
The reason is that males have the desire to know what it is that they are lacking, and how come they were not able to satisfy you in this particular instance.
Soon they will be coming back to you for more.
Of course these techniques are only the tip of the iceberg, following from there it is up to you to keep the interest alive!